Do you think I'll get through this?

Question

I'll try to make this story short...I've been with my man for over 3 years. We got engaged last Dec. and now have found out that I am 4 1/2 months prego!!! We are both WAY excited and happy about it because neither thought that we could have children!! So it's been a blessing!! We have our own home that we are buying. Everything has been looking Great for us! Well he doesn't have a license and he has a little anger problem. He's never nor would he ever hit me! But he just doesn't understand my feelings especailly now that I am pregnant. (he tells me that I shouldn't be this hormonal so early in my pregnancy! LIKE HE FREAKING KNOWS!) I am usually not that big of an emotional person but I am pretty needy! and it's worse now!! So anyways he's been hanging out with his friends a lot lately on his days off and not been spending that much time with me. Well we had a long drawn out conversation about it over the weekend and I told him how I felt about it and he said okay he would work on it. Well yesterday when I got off work and got home he wasn't there. And I hadn't heard from him all day long while I was at work. So I expected a note at least letting me know where he was going! But Nothing! I sit there getting more and more upset as the night went on and finally went to bed around 11pm. Around 12:30 I heard this banging on my window and it scared the c**p out of me! My man has a key so I wouldn't have thought it was him so I was really scared cause we live out in the country and I don't know anyone around us. Anyways I finally get up and look out the window and notice it was my fiance and there was no truck. He got pulled over yesterday and because he doesn't have a license the truck was impounded. I am just upset with him because guess where he was going?!?! TO his stupid friends house!!!! We talked a lot last night about it but I am still just so freaking upset with him! He needs to grow up! Do you think I am being a b*tch about this or think I am in the right to tell him to straighten up!?

Answer 1

Drama, Drama, Drama!!!!!!

Sounds like he is very immature and needs to grow up. How did he lose his license?

No -- you are not being a b.... about it at all.

Btw - a person doesn't have a "little" anger problem. If he has an anger problem then he needs to get help. He also lacks good judgment if he is driving without a license.