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Do you think I'm wrong for not wanting to be his friend even though he continues to initiate contact?

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I'm in college and have only dated one guy for about a month. We meet in class & got along fairly well. He kept asking me to go out with him; I finally said yes. There were some good things about him" he made me laugh (which is hard to do), I felt comfortable to be myself around him, he seemed genuinely interested in me. Some bad things: sometimes I'd have to pay & one time I gave him my tokens for the arcade b/c he ran out and I had to watch him play, when he'd pay, he'd leave the receipts on the table, even though he knew I wasn't experienced he'd presured me to kissing him on our first date & kept telling me I needed to work on it.

I didn't call him very often b/c we say each other in class & I'm a really introverted person so I can only take so much interaction. He'd get upset even though we'd go places too.

Well, one day we were in a big chem lecture hall, in the front, right before class started, he started kissing me on my neck (something we hadn't done before), I moved over & put my bag in between us. He said there we be alot more we're that came from. I was so embarrassed & felt S****y. I think that should be something done in private. I was mad at him & withdrew from him. Later on that day, he asked me was there anything wrong (over the phone) I told him I didn't like that.

The next day he called me & said he needed to talk to me. I insisted he tell me whatever it was over the phone. He finally did. He broke up with me & read his list of reasons. I always suspected it was b/c of that day. I even asked him later on that semester & he's always denied it.

We bumped into each other. He asked for my number & called me. What do you think?

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  1. i think you should find someone who will show you more respect.


  2. No.  He's controlling and wants to try that again.  Don't talk to him.  Why did you give him your number?

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