Do you think I am a bad friend? ?

Question

Well, this girl is supposed to be my roommate next year..Although, I do not think that I will be coming back to school. I was going to Hart wick College. Although, now I am going to Hofstra University.... I think it will be better because it is closer to home.. When I am so far away have a hard time getting my stuff and self back to New York...No one wants to drive that far...I was planning on transferring next year, but when i went to the school they accepted right on the spot and I was in....Although, I feel bad fro my roomate because she has alot of people talking bad about her.. She slept with this guy and he told the whoe school..People call her a w***e..Although,she was messing with this guy I use to date and he dumped me..I think she slept with him... I just want to start fresh

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with wanting to do what is best for you. You had no control over who your friend slept with so you shouldn't have to face the consequences of that. It doesn't make you a bad friend at all! You can still be there for your friend even if you aren't her roomate anymore.  

Answer 2

your not being a bad friend at all,

your going for your future tbh and if this girl broke the guy u used to date then i wouldnt worry about her, she sounds like the bad friend not you,

go for your dreams girl and go to the school which is best for you,

dont let anyone get in your way, its your life.

:)

Answer 3

It sounds like your roommate is the one who is the bad friend. In life, you have to do what is best for you and no one else. So if changing schools is in your best interest, go for it. Don't feel bad, she made her own choices in doing what she did. Just let her know she's free to call you anytime if you're still looking to be her friend.