Do you think I should tell my husband....?

Question

that his brother grabbed my azz the other night at our house? He has never behaved like this in the 7 years I have known him and he wasn't drinking--or should I just forget about it and not cause a family fight--if my husband knew, he would wipe the floor ...

Answer 1

First of all you owe it to your husband to tell him.  Because if he did it once he will do it again, and you never know your husband may just be watching and then what?  Whether he was drinking or not, your brother in law should still respect you enough knowing that you are married to his brother.  Tell your husband and let him mop the floor with his brother.  Because the next thing you know he will be making sexual advances at you.

Answer 2

yeah you should tell your husband. That's highly inappropriate, and what if another family member sees the brother getting away with this? they may think things are going on between the two of you and start rumors that could come between you and your husband

Answer 3

Tell him!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

The communication between you and your husband comes before anything. You should tell him, if he even finds out from someone else YOU are going to be in trouble. Tell him, explain to him that you don't want to cause any problems. If you are afraid of causing problems, tell him like if you think it was an accident but you just wanted to do you part by letting him know. Good Luck!

Answer 5

that is so inapproppriate . i would tell him that i just slapped your brother cause he grabbed my azz

Answer 6

You better tell you husband before he finds out later and think that youre a lying h**r.  

Answer 7

tell him. i would !!  

Answer 8

Your husband may be mad but not at you tell HIM. He would want to know.  

Answer 9

Tell your husband,before that happen again.

Answer 10

you should tell ur husband god knows what his brother "dearest" might do to u tomorrow , today he only grabbed your azz god knows what he might try next so tell u r husband to talk to his brother

if u dont want a fight then talk to the brother if he dosnt want to stop then tell ur husband rite away or esle ur brother in law might make a cockabull tale to make u the bad person

but i think u better tell ur husband first

Answer 11

I would issue a warning to the b-i-l. He does it again and his brother will kick his azz up around his shoulder blades. Maybe this was a single act of indiscretion. Make him see that you are not about to put up with his c**p. Good luck and put that snake in it's place!  

Answer 12

Yes tell him.

Answer 13

I would wait and see if something else happens first.  He might have been doing it just to be funny:)

Answer 14

I've learned, from experience, that it doesn't always work out the way we thought it would.  I had an experience with hubby's best friend after we'd been married 2 years.  Hubby and I were going through a rough time, and I went to his best friend to see if he could talk to hubby and see what was going on with him.  Well...it didn't happen exactly as I had planned.  The best friend wound up rubbing his &*()_ in my face...I was sitting on the couch, he was standing...when he hugged me.  I stopped him and he says, Oh, I was just testing you to see if you'd cheat on my best friend.  Excuse me!?  Why are you pointing at me, then!?!?

Anyway...I went to hubby and told him what had happened.  He confronted his friend, who, naturally, denied it.  Hubby wound up believing him over me!!  To this day, 10 years later, his friend and I don't speak, but neither do hubby and the friend.  He finally realized that I wouldn't make such a thing up and that his friend wasn't who he thought he was.

So...your telling hubby could go one of two ways...he could believe you and beat the snot out of his brother, or he could confront his brother, who'll probably deny it, and jump all over you for 'lieing.'  Either way, it causes a big blow up and things won't ever be the same.  He'll go tell another family member, who will tell another, and before long, everyone knows how much of a liar and troublemaker you are...and you still have the same issue with the BIL that noone believes!

I'd think long and hard before going to hubby.  In fact, I'd probably confront my BIL before I said anything to hubby, then go from there.  Well, I'd tell you exactly what I would've done...I'd have knocked BILs block off!  Then he'd have had to explain to my hubby why his eye was black!  I won't EVER go through that again!  The next time some guy feels up on me, they're going to draw back a nub!  I won't wait for hubby to handle it...I'm manning up and handling the situation by myself!!!!

God bless you, Darlin'.  I hope everything works out for you.  

Answer 15

Tell him, that's a bull**** thing to do and he should be corrected or even get his butt whopped for it!  I would kick my brothers *** and disown him (that is if I hadn't already).  I havent spoken to my brother in 20 years.

Answer 16

I would say something

Answer 17

start calling him *** grabber when youre around people like you are teasing him,when someone asks tell them in front of him that he "accidentally " bumped your *** and now you know he wants you.It will embarrass him enough ....it wont happen again.

Answer 18

It might have just been a little playing around. If you were uncomfortable, talk to the brother. tell himn you didnt appreciate it. if he backs off, no need to tell your hubby. but if it continues, then tell him

Answer 19

Its up to you.  I know that if he heard this, he would beat his brotherz azz, but if you don't then it may come back to hurt you.  Tell him about it, but make him promise all he will do is go talk to his brother and not hurt him (ha, like that will help...he will wipe his brother on the floor after knocking the c**p outta him)...but his brother deserve it. he disrespected you and your husband.

Answer 20

I would tell him so he doesn't do it again!

Answer 21

if you don't tell him, & he were to find out..he could blame it on you. but if you tell him, he would blame his brother.

i would always pick the option that would avoid the fight later on.

good luck!

Answer 22

you better wait, then if he repeat it, immediately inform hubby.

Answer 23

Wipe the floor with you mickey tesser.

Answer 24

It's better if he hears your version first. But only after you have spoken to his brother. To see if he's really that big of a jerk. It's possible that he it want happen again.