Do you think a 35 year old woman is old?

Question

I'm really depressed about being 35. I'm not married and I don't have kids and so I don't have any girlfriends because I have nothing in common with them. Even girls that I went to school with and was friends with have kids! It's not that I don't want them, it's just that I still don't feel ready. My boyfriend is 31 and most of his (and I guess my) friends are in their 20's. I think they think of me of being really old. I don't look 35! And I definitely don't act 35! I mean, is it stupid that I still love waterparks? And I still like to wear brands like PINK, Hollister, Abercrombie, etc... How can I quit worrying so much about what other people think?

Answer 1

You're not really old, per se, but nothing makes someone look older than trying to dress and act younger than they really are. It comes across as rather pathetic.

Answer 2

No.  I'm 28 and my husband will soon be 34.  I think it's all a matter of how you feel.  

Answer 3

I am exactly in the same boat as you, minus the husband.  I'm married, but no kids yet.  I worked a lot and felt I wasn't mentally ready.  Now I'm actually considering it more and we will start trying.

35 is not old.  I don't look my age, nor do I really "feel" 35.  You should definitely be around more people who you have things in common with.  I'm enjoying my age!  Just be yourself and don't think twice about what others say.

Answer 4

You are only as old as you feel! And for the record I don't think 35 is old at all.

Answer 5

35 year old woman is not old ! If u are a studies person in the Bible man and woman nearly live a thousand years and in Guinis  book world record a woman had babies about 61-65 years of age that because she took care of her body and staying young "fit looking and of  the Bible "Abraham wife Sahara well stricting in age God bless her to have a Child this true. If u eat one meal a day of (healthy) foods, every 24 hour, but pick particular time to eat no between meals only at that time that give the body to get rid of poison of our body. If going to eat breakfest just eat fruits, healthy cereals, wheat muffins, no lunch u will look so young !

Answer 6

Life is short so do what you want to do wear what you want to wear and make the most of every day.

Answer 7

Perhaps you are not mature for a 35 yrs old, and there's nothing wrong with it  

Answer 8

You cant change being 35 so s***w what others think.   Live Life and Have Fun.  

I also want to point out that most people never feel ready to have kids.  If you know you want some you better start now.  You only got about 6-7 years.  Im just saying at 35 you are considered advance maternal age.  Now if you dont want kids then Live Life and dont worry about age.  

Answer 9

your not old, i class old 65 and above