I'm 17 and have always been quiet and polite, well mostly. I noticed my mom is a pretty polite person as well. She got invited to my cousin's and his wifes baby shower, but she didn't want to go. She was too scared to decline because she didn't want to seem rude. Well she did decline but that doesn't usually happen. Now my cousin isn't bad and knows what no means. My mom politlely declined and they were cool with it. Now I'm talking about people who don't get what no means. Being polite doesn't work, so you have to be rude to get it across. Trust me I know a lot of stupid people and being polite just doesn;t work for them. You have to be rude because that's all they understand. So I guess I'm asking, can rudeness be good sometimes? By the way just answer the question. I don't need 12 paragraphs explaining why it's important to be polite and not rude most of the time because I know why. I just want to know if being rude is ok and necessary in certain situations.
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