Do you think a women looses aspects of her personality when they become partners,wives or mothers?

Question

ie change of views etc to keep their partner or kids happy

Answer 1

Yeah, to do some degree. When one gets marriaged, they have to give a little and take a little from their significant other. Marriage is a joining of two people into a union and over the course of that, there's a process where habbits are either broken or accepted.

Answer 2

I think the answer is yes because when you get involved with somebody you have to compromise many things, sometimes even you have to keep quite about a lot of things before you hurt your partner's feelings, you have to adapt yourself and at the end you find yourself you lost part of your personality.

Answer 3

I would say yes! With myself I have noticed since I’ve been married, I don’t find things as funny, lost sense of humor. having my children changes the way I view the world really, but I guess it would depend on the person. I don’t think that it is all in a bad way, but it could be.

When you become “partners, wives or mothers” one tends to give in on certain aspects. The other half’s view may not be the same. You try to meet in the middle.

Answer 4

I would like to say no but the truth is I think in someways you have to. Life makes you adjust, or even sometimes loose, a aspect of your personality just through experience. For example you may talk to people in a certain way or do certain things that have always been apart of who you are. But once you get into that relationship or have that child or whatever you may see 'okay. That's not a way to be' or 'okay I can't think like that anymore' or whatever,

Answer 5

To a degree but it's more a part of becoming part of a couple and making shared decisions that affect them both. You have to change your views because your views are no longer something that just affects you.

Answer 6

Yes I most certainly do.Your whole life changes dramatically.The personality that you have is completely taken away from you at home and when you do happen to be taken out for the evening to a party or meeting friends for a meal out you suddenly realise that you are an interesting person and you find confidence once again.For a whole evening you suddenly feel like a unique person that shines like a star.It proves that nobody can take your personality away from you because you are you!