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Do you think all misogynous men are potential rapist or just plain stupid ?

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Here's the story....

I met a guy who i befriended but the guy made it clear from the beginning he liked me, yet never said he had feelings for me he was mostly cold, i made let him know upfront that i had no further intentions with him other than friendship purposes cause i am in love with someone else ...even if i wasn't he was not my type and my complete opposite and everything i said was an overreaction and unnecessary .

The reason i put up with its that i am starting a business and he has good connections with a company that can help me budget my business and he has bailed me out of a couple of problems and gives a ride to places here and there, yet he pushes my gratitude by trying to hold my hand or put his arm around my waist trying to steal a kiss an he thinks its ok cause he says he is just being "affectioned" and acts all arrogant as if he owned me and he says we are friends and it shouldn't be a problem with the too of us getting "touchy" i call that "harrassment" and he says i overreact and act as if my feeling or ideas didn't matter and he is always trying to set me up to go to his house so he can be alone, i always tell him NO cause all the guys take girls to their places to get laid, he sometimes gets mad when i say things like this and calls me in other word that i am a *****(not directly, but implied) and gets really upset and his tone of voice gets a little more hostile, yet i forgive him cause he is just another idiot who didn't had a strong mother to show him some respect for women.

Then finally, last monday he set me up! He say we must go to some meeting with some guy friend of his but we should stop buy his place a little before going there casue he need to pick up some papers, i said:"i'll wait in the car, thank you" but he says he wont do anything to me and he just wnats to show me some pictures of his kids. I said stronly and almost outraged :"fine!! 5 minutes, only!!!" the minute i walk in he starts touching me and i have to fight him off and he forced me to kiss him and says "dont you like my kisses?" and drags me to his bedroom, pushes me into his bed and starst saying he will be so kind and loving and i'll enjoy it, i start to panic and begin to almost cry, i just couldn't belive what was going on...then he stops, i get up and yell at him to take me home and he is so mad i didn't wnated to do so , he says "Fine is your gonna be like this, i won't do it then, but your missing out" so he drove me home, there was no meeting, i was in no mood and he got so mad he droped me off like 5 blocks from home...What a psycho!

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  1. I'm sorry that you were exposed to this kind of person.  We are not all like that.  I come with credible references.

    Best Wishes

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  2. he is a potential rapist. good for you for pushing him away. you should just end this relationship right now before it gets worse and you cant fend him off. this guy sounds like a total creep, not worth even the business connections he might have. There are better and safer ways to get your business off the ground. anyways, I'm sure he has overexaggerated his connections and ability to help you get ahead in business. I mean, he did fake a meeting to get you into his house. He is just trying to get you in bed, and anything he says is probably a lie. Ignore him and if he won't go away...get a restraining order!

  3. n zud

  4. He sounds pretty bad. He may be able to help with your business but it's not worth the c**p of emotional issues he wants to unload on you. He sounds like a date raper/woman hater type. Please avoid him!

  5. girl you just set yourself up. you could see the signes from the start and you still continued. ive had guys like that at my work and im 23 and i had a guy in his 50s try that i ended up calling sercurity to get rid of him as he wasnt getting the message. typically a rapist is a person who rapes for the control its not about s*x its about control and domination. i would personally report him to the police.

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