Do you think by his reaction to my message he got what he was looking for?

Question

Okay, on Monday of this week I told my guy that one of my brothers friends sent me a couple messages that were basically hitting on me, but I just deleted them because obviously I am not single and not interested in this guy but that I thought it was weird, he got mad because I didn’t tell him right on the day it happened plus he said he was not mad at me but pissed at the situation and that he loves me and cares for me so much and is pissed someone was trying to talk to “his girl” anyway the very next day we talked on the phone he said that some girl sent him a couple messages and was trying to get him to hang out with her, I get jealous too, however, have a hard time verbalizing how I feel so I just got really quite and got off the phone with him. But of course was hurt and mad all night. So this morning I sent him a message that said “good morning baby, I hope you have a great day today xoxo. PS tell that girl that was texting you to leave you alone today, okay handsome?” and he responded “LOL, ok baby love you” what do you think of his response to what I said and do you think he was just trying to get my jealous back or that this really happened? And with his response to my text with LOL do you think he was laughing because he was like "oh whatever" or because he got the reaction he was looking for? I am confused and a bit hurt.

Answer 1

He wanted to let you know how he felt that day you told him you were getting hit on. He felt that to make you understand where he was coming from was to put you in his shoes. That's what I believe he was doing.

Answer 2

Why not give him the benefit of the doubt? Sounds to me like he was LOL because you have nothing to worry about.

Answer 3

he was prbably saying "LOL" because you didn't mention anything last night when he said something.

Don't even worry about it.

Answer 4

How old are you two? Sounds like you both are playing games with each other..the game of "Let's make my partner jealous today". So he was mad and hurt and now so are you...grow up, get over it and stop with the games, life and relationships are complex enough without the drama.

Answer 5

Love and trust go hand in hand. I have been married for 42 years and over the years things like that happened. Just let it roll off your back. He should be flattered that someone else thinks you are a prize.  

Answer 6

you're taking it too seriouslyy..and let it goo

forget about it..have fun.have s*x and enjoy!!!

halleleuah!!

Answer 7

Don't be hurt, with guys it's all just a big game. No one texted him, he was just trying to make you jelous and that's why he said "lol" because he got the reaction that he was looking for.  

Answer 8

I personally think he did it to make you see how it feels to be on the other side of the pole.

Otherwise he wouldn't have said "LOL"

Answer 9

i think he was just saying it to get back at you :) i have had that happened with me and it's not fair cos i know it really hurts to have them say the things they do :) but i'm sure you two will be fine, he said he loved you in the text this morning so forget about it and be happy together :)

Answer 10

A-bit fishy on his part....mmm maybe wanted you to feel what he felt,

maybe he thought by your actions you shoud have been just as mad.

In this case I'd say You are OK...he was wrong!

Answer 11

he was just trying to get back at you.

it was smart of you for not making a big deal out of it.

if he is as smart as you he won't try that again.

but just to be sure keep an eye on him.

Answer 12

I think he told you a girl was texting him just to make you jealous, i dnot think anyone really texted him . and by him saying lol just means that you two are over the situation..ya know...so it should be all good now!

Answer 13

i don't know this for a fact, but i would assume the girl didn't exist he probably was just joking and hoping you would laugh about it..and when you said that the next morning he assumed it was okay and you had laughed about it apparently you didn't take it as a joke and you should ask him. Be like, don't laugh just honestly answer me...okay? and if he  agrees say " is this girl real? cuznd of hurt me? or were you just playing cuz i really don' know just be honest w/ him..and maybe tell him you are a little jealous.................and me being a woman, i know we do sometimes overthink things

Answer 14

it sounds like he was probably trying to get you back because of the "LOL" and cuz it was right after you told him about the other guy hitting on you. but theres also a small chance that this girl has been hitting on him for a while and sense you told him about the other guy, he felt that he should tell you about her. idk what that would mean for the "LOL" though.

i think you need to talk to him about this. he shouldn't get too mad if you do.

Answer 15

Hi Bella,

  I'm not sure if he did or didn't get a message from a different girl. He wasn't laughing at you he was happy than you care for him and didn't want that girl to steal him from you.All that counts is you both Love each other and should be honest with each other.I think that's all that is really going on My Friend.

Your Friend,

poppy1

Answer 16

sounds like his acting like a baby!