Do you think guys can't help cheating?

Question

Do you think guys can't help cheating?

Answer 1

Scumbags, and selfish guys can't help cheating... guys that only use women for s*x and don't see them more than that can't help cheating... guys that don't think about their future and the person they are with can't help cheating... guys that don't care about anyone else's feelings but themselves can't help cheating...

good guys, real men don't cheat.  

Answer 2

because they think about sxe every 6 minutes, and theyre dogs

Answer 3

This is such a crazy question to me because I personally know 12 couples that have been unfaithful.  And in each case, 12 for 12, it was the woman who did the cheating.

Answer 4

they can help it!

there are quite a few that don't...but then again there are quite a few that do..

i truly believe that any man who cheats in uncomfortable with himself and has low self esteem...he is unsure of your relationship or something is lacking in the relationship!

Answer 5

i think many men cheat for their own ego and issues with it  

Answer 6

If a real man loves his woman he wont cheat.

The feeling can be solved with one thought, I'm not going to do this to her.

Both s*x's cheat !

Answer 7

Yes I think they can. It all depends on how much they care about the person they are with and their moral character.  

Answer 8

I think men can't help themselves when it comes to pursuing their own happiness.  If a man is truly happy and mature enough for a committed relationship, then he is taking that step and risk to being married to what he is gambling on a lifetime of happiness.

When the marriage turns out lousy then obviously a man is going to leave or have affairs.  Take care of your husbands and you have nothing to worry about.

Answer 9

Believe me if given the right opportunity ANY man will cheat even happily married guys would.

Answer 10

Nah! I know tons that do not cheat. My Husband is one of them, he said he would never cheat cause his mom would kick his *** LOL...no seriusly though, somemen have morals and just dont do that....my husabds bro married for 15 yrs hes 41 never cheateed, he turned down a gorgeous girl from his past, flat out told her to get out ....my bro in law married to my sis in law never would cheat, my brothers would neevr cheat on their partnteres...and i can name soo many others...if ppl say that all guys would cheat, then they are w/ cheaters....

Answer 11

Some can. Some can't. My husband of forty years was a massive cheater. It cost us thousands of dollars and a lot of pain. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 12

Can't HELP cheating?!?  Of course they can.   That's like saying I can't help but each chocolate.  I don't want to stop, I enjoy it, way too much, but of course I can stop.  It's the same with cheating, for one reason or another they choose to cheat after they have made the marriage commitment. That is something they do have total control over and saying they can't help it is just a poor excuse, that noone should accept.  

Answer 13

they can help it men who cheat i believe are trying to live there glory days just so happens that there married and since being married they've gotten attention from women they would've never gotten if they where still single a man will not cheat if he really loves his wife girl whatever he would have gotten it out of his system before he meet his significant other  

Answer 14

Cheating is a conscience decision ~ not a "mistake" ~ so, they CAN help it, they choose not to...same for women who cheat~

Answer 15

It goes both ways with cheating, people try and find what they are lacking from their partners, if not, they go somewhere else.  But if the partner listens to the others needs. cheating is not an issue, 9/10 times atleast.  

Answer 16

Guys may say it is in their nature to cheat because there is not monogamy in the animal kingdom and that in the past, even humans did not stay monogamous and that such a thing was not even heard of then.  We have evolved, become more civilized and a heck of a lot more intelligent since those days.  Those guys who say they cannot help but cheat because it is their nature to not stay with one girl may be right to say it is their nature, because that is their personality and character.  But the thing is this, not all guys are like this, and those that say they cannot help themselves, that it is out of their control, just are not mature enough to admit the truth, that they can help themselves but would rather not.  And unfortunately a lot of girls blame themselves for not being able to keep a man to themselves, but it is really just that the guy has not matured enough yet to be ready and committed to a true relationship.  If you are in this position, in a relationship with a guy who can't commit when you want to, then do not lower yourself and your values to be just another girl for him to call when he gets lonely.  Just wait for the right guy to come along.  And even though you may be wondering if and when that will ever happen, I promise you it will.  Sometimes you just may have to wait longer than you would like, but if you truly want to be with a guy who will respect you, it is worth the wait.  It will be better in the long run to have a good relationship with a great guy and not be filled with regrets from disrespecting yourself in the past, which may lead you to have a lower self-esteem and self-respect.  You should respect yourself more and display this respect for yourself to others meaning that if you do not show a guy that you respect yourself, then he may think he does not have to respect you.