Do you think hanging around people that treat u like crapp influences your self-esteem?

Question

Do you think in a "quantum physics" kind of way that could change brain chemistry..causing the little neuron dudes to change your cells to become all the things that these mean people say about you, if you believe them, or would it just give you a bad case of environmental depression?

If this were the case,,if I started saying nice things about myself,, would that change my neuron dudes to become what ever I wanted me to be..(or atleast get off of antidepressants)

on a lighter note..don't mean people suck?

Answer 1

...h**l-loo...never will a bunch of negatives create a POSITIVE...

...MEAN people are negative, ignorant, selfish ignoramuses...

...always taking and destroying what is positive and good...

...thanks for asking...

Answer 2

Yes

Answer 3

mmm, its best to stay away from those mean people...before I beat them with a steel bat...

Answer 4

If you hang around people that "treat you like crapp",

you already have low self esteem.

Ditch the sods already!

Most people are at least decent enough to treat you

like a lamp-post, and thats a step up from crapp.

Answer 5

I used to be a very mean kid, I even made one other kid leave the school because he was so afraid of me... He had too little self-esteem to stand up for himself... I picked on him because he was the laughing stock of the whole class, and when I tried to help him stop being such a fool, he did not want to listen, so I taught him the hard way...

When people are timid, then it attracts others to be mean to them - this is because if you are too afraid of others, then it means that you do not trust them. If you do not trust them then they will not feel like your real friend, and they will always want to test you out by being "mean" to you...

Answer 6

{1}....self-esteem comes from within ones self....{2} if people talk about you in an ill way, they are the ones that are suffering from low self-esteem....{3} don't go saying nice things about your self, you are looking for praise/pat on the back, just be your self, don't go looking for a "pat on the back" that is just wrong

Answer 7

yeah they would effect your self esteem which then might effect your overall health and therefore you hanging out with the wrong people can mess with your cells. i think that if you are on anti-depressants you better be depressed from medical reasons not just because your life sucks.  if your life sucks of course you are going to be depressed and should fix what ever is wrong not just take some pills that makes it go away for a while. that is what is wrong with this country. over medicated people. and yes mean people suck and should get over themselves or leave the rest of us alone.

Answer 8

Dude.................

Yes...................mean people suck

Answer 9

I think the bare answer to your question, is the Law of Attraction.

You, as a person, attract what your consciousness is asking for as well as your thoughts. In a simpler form, if you walk around feeling sorry for yourself, you will attract other people or things of that sort of energy, and also duplicate your feeling of self pity.

Answer 10

it certainly influences your self esteem. it really depends on what kind of person you are and how you take these mean people to determine which way your self esteem will go.

Answer 11

It would take a long time to "psyche yourself" into a better brain chemistry, but it's doable if your brain chemistry is not too messed up...

And, yes...mean people do, indeed, bite the big one...

Answer 12

Yes, mean people suck.  I don't know much about the little neuron dudes, but being around those who treat you badly isn't good for your mental or physical health.  They want everyone to be as pathetic and miserable as they are.  Cut 'em loose and spend your time with people who treat you well.  You'll feel a lot better about yourself.

Answer 13

Yes.  Those around us have a significant impact on our outlook.

Answer 14

Yes....Find some peeps to hang with that won't treat you like this.

Yes...Say nice things about yourself... everyday, it will make a difference to how you feel about yourself in time. (In a good way)

Good luck.

Answer 15

Stop messing with my head! And, yes. Yes they do.

Answer 16

Good analysis!

yes, I think living in a negative environment will have a great impact on your behaviour and who will you become. Personally, I would stay away from such individuals. They're believe they're c**p and want to bring other people down and become craps like them. So, yeah stay away.

Answer 17

yes yes and yes - its called introjection when people put out on to you its called projection yes and when the neural pathways are well worn those messages go straight in.

yes positive affirmations work - look up Emile le coue French hypnotherapist-

he said look in hte mirror every day and say to your image

"Every day in every way I am getting better and better!'

Yes but they are doing worse to themselves so don't be mean back or oyu'll ctch it agian and it'll just go round and round forever - be the one that breaks it. They might all catch themselves on - who knows.

good luck.