Do you think he deserves a second chance and, do you think you deserve that second chance?

Question

hubbies erring as they go through life with you. you forgive them but, what about you?

Answer 1

for better or for worse, couples need to work out their differences.  everyone deserves a second chance (or a third even).  this is the foundation of marriage counseling.  it has got to work.  divorce (or separation) is not the answer; just the easy way out.

Answer 2

to err is human, to forgive is divine...

Answer 3

yes, he deserve a second chance. everyone of us deserve that chance. this is how we learn and grow by our mistakes. besides nobody is perfect...

Answer 4

If you're talking about cheating, do you think if you forgive him you can forget what he did? WE are suppose to forgive each other or we will not be forgiven, but are you ready to take the consequences? If you can answer this then you have the answer to your question.

Answer 5

no... I dont believe in second chances, I rather just moved on with my life..  Staying together without the trust would not work in a relationship. Period... He might change for a little while but eventually he will go back to his usual self. Remember: You cannot change a person they are who they are. But if you really want to be with him then thats ur choice and be ready for some consequences.

Answer 6

Both deserves second chances. Love is lovelier the second time around right? It's not only your hubby who has to prove that he deserves you, you, also has to prove that you deserve him as well. Relationships works two ways in both ways. It's about growing together yet separately... it's about letting go whil holding on... it's all about compromise... do your best and what's best fo him and let him do his part. Don't be too assuming, lay alkl cards on the table... talk about it... be completely honest... love without reservations... trust completely... live together and exist together...

Answer 7

what kind of "erring" are you talking about?  If this is about him cheating on you, then no.  Once a cheater, always a cheater.

if it's anything else, then nobody is perfect and neither are you.  forgiveness is part of growing up.