Do you think he hates me?

Question

okay, i know you all arent psychic, but what do you guys think?....

so there is this guy that i know. lets call him bob. we used to talk all the time about 2 years ago. we used to talk about music, homework, etc....i had a little crush on him and he knew (he told my friend that he had a 'hunch' that i liked him) but we still talked. but then, some drama happened. its a long story, but some guy who li had a fight with told bob that i liked bob and was obsessed with him and stalked him and a whole bunch of stupid c**p like that (which btw is NOT true!) anyways....bob believed that the stuff that was said. so i chewed him out for actually believing it and called him some names and stuff like that. it wasnt until last year when he actually talked to me again. i confronted him about the drama that went down and asked if we were cool....he said that he was sorry and that we were cool and he was okay to being friends again. but the thing is...since we dont have any classes together, the only way we usually communicate is on myspace. lol. but whenever i leave him comments asking him 'whats up? how was your summer?' stuff like that. he just comments back saying 'nothing. u?' and sometimes he doesnt even comment back. i know it sounds pathetic, but we used to talk on myspace all the time before the drama. and sometimes in the hallways, he acts like he is avoiding me. but he stares at me alot...idk. what do you think? if you were him...what would you think?

i asked him if he didnt like me and he just said 'why do you think that?' idk.

sorry its sooo long! but i thought the more detail, the more you would be able to give your opinion on the situation...

Answer 1

Ask him why hes ignoring you but in his face!

If he wont answer you, get a move-on. You are living in the feature, not the past! Now go do some shopping or whatever you like doing...

:-P

Answer 2

Whether or not he believes the stuff your friend, or whoever, relayed to him, he probably still feels uncomfortable. And, there has been a gap in your friendship. I think the biggest thing to do is just try, one last time, to straighten it out. If you can track down the DQ that started the B.S., do it, and see if they'll get their story straight because they ruined your friendship. If they won't, then just try talking to the person you're fretting over. Tell them exactly, detail for detail, what happened, let them know how you're feeling, and all that.

If the guy's still reacting the same, then he's somewhere else, and not concerned with instilling the same bond the two of you once have. People come and people go, and all the while its in this we grow.

If he can't be there and be what you WANT him to be, then you're obviously going to have to let go.

Me, personally, if someone told me someone was stalking me and stuff, depending on the person telling me and the person being talked about, I more than likely wouldn't believe it. But, if I did, it'd stick with me, and keep me creeped out, unfortunately.

I've had similar things happen with friends. I've been going through the pruning time in my life, where I'm cutting people out, because they're not making the effort to keep a relationship with me, so its not worth me brooding over. You know?

Right now, for you, you've got more important things to focus on - school, finding yourself, making new friends, realizing what putz' guys are, keeping out of trouble, and so on.

Best wishes.

Answer 3

NAH, I DON'T THINK HE HATES YOU! MAY BE  HE'S  ALSO  TALKING  TO OTHER  PEOPLE ON MYSPACE.  JUST TRY  ASKING  HIM SOMETHING  MORE INTERESTING  AND TRY  ASKING HIM A  QUESTION  THAT REQUIRES HIM TO GIVE A LONGER ANSWER AND A MORE DETAILED  ONE. AND IF HE STILL PUTS NOTHIN' ND U? THEN YOU CAN  START  TRIPPIN'.LOL