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Do you think he will be happy to see me?

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I was close friends with a married man until we got physical. We didn't have s*x but we just fooled around. It was a mistake and I felt guilty about it.

However he never called me after that and it seemed like he was distancing himself from me. I was devastated and hurt. I understand because he is married and he was doing the right thing. I cried my eyes. I knew it was for the best.

Unfortunately I still miss our friendship. Tomorrow I am going in the west end of the city to visit my aunt so I was thinking to take one of his busses that he drives to just say hi and tell him how much I missed our friendship. He is a bus driver and I know his schedule.

So should I just go to say hi since I havenÃ¢Â€Â™t spoke to him in 2 week?

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leave him alone, he doesn't need to be reminded that he almost made a hugh mistake that could have cost him his marriage. Its apparent that he loves his wife so just stay in the background. Don't embarrass him nor yourself by thinking there was something there when there wasn't.

If you ever marry, remember what you've done and think about having your husband cheat on you. That's what you did to that mans wife. leave them alone.
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Happy Yet Awkward..
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... perhaps you could call him and say you only want to be friends???
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what if he were your husband? how would u feel ?cut all ties he has had second thoughts and is trying to remain faithful to his wife, and doing this is just tempting him.what do u hope to gain by doing this?there is no gain for u or for his wife, save yourself heartache and go find someone who can give u what u need in life.
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make sure you let him know you just want to be friend because the most likely reason he distanced himself from you is because he didn't want to get caught and you might frighten him so make sure you let him know that.
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Like you said...he's probably trying to do the right thing. Tempting him is likely not the way to go. Please don't mess with his marriage, and find a single guy who's into you.
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NO! Leave him alone, he's married!!! How would you feel if you were his wife? Think about it!

LEAVE MARRIED MEN ALONE!
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In my eyes I would leave him alone.I know you care about him but he is a married man.Let him live his life like he is and find someone else who is not MARRIED.....
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don't be a stalker! have some respect for yourself!
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AW <3

dont bother if he has a wife

he just wanted to have it

not u

kk

okey dokey =]
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Wrong.

Why go there?

The right thing to do is to stay the P***k away.
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Stay away from this man.He cheated on his wife...and broke ur heart at the same time.He means trouble...STay away
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Stop thinking about him right now; he will only bring you heartache, and this is why it is always a bad idea to mess around with a married man. Forget him and find someone more available.
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no that would be inappropriate.
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If you want him back AS FRIEND go for it but if you are oging to see him FOR s*x ..STOP...

Good luck
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I just read one of your other posting about pursuing this married man.

Please leave him alone. He's married and made his decision.

You really need to find someone else to pursue.

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Same question, same answer. Move on with your life and leave the married man alone.
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I think if you have to ask then you should not go. If he is trying to distance himself I think you should let him. I think given the circumstances you going out of your way to confront him at work seems a bit like stalking him. When and if he is ready to see you again let him be the one to make the first move.
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He'll hate it if you show up suddenly unannounced. If he wants to speak to you, he knows how to reach you when he's ready
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I'd say NO. Do you really want to possibly interfere with a man's marriage? He distanced himself b/c he decided to do the right thing and not cheat on his wife. I think you should find someone single to be with. Leave married men alone.
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No you shouldnt.. Dont be a psycho-chick.
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no you shouldnt. you obvoiously ruined your friendship when you decided to fool around with a married man. that was completely irresponsible. just leave him alone. hes trying to do the right thing
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Your not just popping in to say Hello. You have an agenda. Leave Him Alone. He obviously wants the distance and his wife.
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it depends...how physical did you get?
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