Do you think hes cheating or am I paranoid?

Question

we've had an incident before where he kissed somebody but he broke up with me bcuz he felt so bad n we were seperate for a while and this was amlost 2 years ago then after that I thot he was cheating with someone else but no guilt just suspicious behaviour anyway I got over that and for the longest time now nada, hes acted normal and now I am 10 weeks pregnant, and hes starting hiding msn convos, changed his pws, keeps his phone on him @ all times, and i started saying u know we gotta be a strong couple we gotta b faithful etc, cuz we have a baby on the way and he got kinda defensive, then upset, now he just says u gotta trust me and let it go, that he wouldnt do that cuz im carrying his baby, but i just dont know...what do you think??

and wat do you think I should do? should i just trust him and keep going and if something is going on it'll come out eventually...or do I just end it now...but if im wrong be the biggest *** ever and have to raise a baby on my own?

Answer 1

Maybe because he cheated before you still looking at him with that Idea.  Tell him exactly what you are feeling and then take it from there

Good luck

Answer 2

I think you should tell him what you feeling.Its really not nice to be in a relationship were you are insecure and always paranoid.Sit him down and talk to him if he respects you he would listen to what you have to say.Tell him how you truly feel let him know that you suspect him and that he must be honest with you.Your'll going to be parents that a big thing you need to ask him were you stand in his life.Then you;ll know what to do.

Answer 3

That Sounds Weird

Hes Asking You To Trust Him But Not Showing You His Fne Or Msn Convo'sz

ii Dont Trust Him

Some Men Dont Care If Your Carrying Their Baby or How Long They've Been With You

Confront Him

Ask Him To Show You his Fne + Convo'sz If He Has Nothing To Hide

:))

Sorry Your In That Position ii Feel Forh You

Answer 4

Tell him that his behavior is suspicious - and if he has nothing to hide he shouldn't be acting this way. You have to  be able to communicate openly.  

Answer 5

you should definitely see what is he writing in MSN but while he is around! Relationships are based on trust!

Answer 6

i think you should talk to him and say the way he is acting is like he has something to hide  

Answer 7

well, does he usually keep his fone on him constantly, if not he might be but people get very emotional during pregnancy x

Good luck!

Jangles!.X

Answer 8

his behaviour indicates he may be hiding something,

Answer 9

It does sound like he's hiding something, I think that you should talk to him calmly, tell him that he can tell you anything and that you will not get upset but try and work through it.  If he still doesn't wanna talk but continue doing these things then kick his *** to the curb, you don't need to stay with a cheeter for your baby's sake

Answer 10

You have to put trust in your partner. That's what a relationship is for. Sometimes it does end up sower and not what you hoped for, but its a chance you have a choice to take.

Ask him why he hides his conversations, and if he gets mad just tell him you need to know for satisfaction. It's not necessarily calling him a cheater when you want to know something he is hiding. It is a teamwork. You're about to have a child, one of the most incredible things to happen to a couple. Don't always suspect the worst :)