Do you think hes cheating?

Question

Okay, so my brother has been dating this girl for 2 maybe 3 years and just last week my brother was upset because his girlfriend thought he was cheating on her. I had to say he wasnt. Today I got on the computer and I saw he called someone baby and was talking to them all romantic like.(I couldnt help but read-i thought he was talking to his girlfriend at first and shes one of my bffs-a little weird huh?) So, then i look and his girlfriend is in a whole other chat session(you know on AIM you can have more than one) Do you think he was talking to someone else? Oh yeah and I dont think i should ask the girlfriend because shed be really upset and dump him and if it wasnt true i would feel really bad) So do you think he is and do you think i should tell my brothers girlfriend?

sorry to keep rambling on its just that i dont know what to do

Answer 1

it's possible...but it could also be a close friend he was talking to!

stay out of their business though, because you might have just got the whole thing wrong  

Answer 2

i so don't balm you um ask your brother and see if he interested in a different girl. and think of you too tell him how would you fell if some guy went and cheated on me.

Answer 3

Well, let me tell you something.... people say many things online especially because they know that they will NEVER meet that person... you can act like youre in love and all... doesnt mean you are... You shouldnt be reading other peoples stuff... even if its accidentally.... if in doubt... ask him.... but dont go running to your friend and tell her... let them fix their problems YEAH!!  =)

Answer 4

Stay out of others relationships, otherwise somehow the finger will point at you for being the reason they broke up!

If anything, tell him you read it, and he should be honest.  Then leave it at that.  I'm sure he will feel guilty and eventually be honest if he is talking to someone else.

Answer 5

You don't do anything.

Keep your nose out of other peoples affairs and mind your business.  

It's none of your concern.  Nobody likes a busy body.

Answer 6

First of all before you mention even bring the girlfriend into this, make sure you have all your information correct.  If your brother is pretty honest with you, then you should ask him about the chat room scene.  Hopefully it was her on another name or something or it was a joke with a friend.  You never know so it would be wise to confront your brother first.  Now, if it is that he is cheating on your friend, you owe it to her to tell her because you would want her to do the same for you.  But at the same time, that is your brother and blood is thicker than water.  If he is cheating, I would advise that you stay out of it so that you don't step on any toes and let the truth reveal itself naturally.

Answer 7

i know she mad it your bussines butt lik .. u shoudl talk to your brother.. i mean .. shess your bff but you shoudd let them deal with itt .. andd just talk to him  

Answer 8

yup!...definately think he was cheatin but don't say anything.  You don't want to be in the middle of a bad break up.  Your brother will be mad at you and so will your best friend....not a good situation.  I say just let her find out on her own.  She already has suspicions so she will be on the lookout now and sooner or later he will slip up and she will find out.

Answer 9

confront your brother about it....or im the other girl he was talkin too

Answer 10

I think in this case Mind Your Own Business and don't say anything