Do you think hes g*y? or friendly?

Question

saw a cute guy@ the gym...well fast forward and hour and he ends up in the sauna when im in there

well, after awhile he just struck out with so where you from? how old are you? you in college? and we got to talking about what he whats to do for a job..(graphic design). He said i looked really young...like a hs student(im 22, hes 23). anyhow it was random and he told me to go apply at his bank for a job. so we got out shook hands and said goodbye. i noticed he had trouble looking at me in the eye..i dont know.

Next day: saw him today but i was steady working out and he seemed to be to. we never crossed paths or talked. it was weird...so i felt awkward and left early. i guess i got my hopes up...hes better looking than i remember.

Answer 1

When someone has trouble looking at you in your eyes, it usually means they like you.  This stems from a feeling of inadequacy and a feeling of inferiority.  

Honestly from your description I would say he likes you quite a bit.  =)

Yea I'd say he's g*y.

EDIT:

The reason why he didn't say anything to you was because he was waiting for you to say something!  Duh.  =)  

Try talking to him again and watch his enthusiasm grow. =)

Answer 2

Maybe he's just shady.

Or thinks you're straight.

Does he know you're g*y?

Ask him if there's a special woman in his life. If he says no then ask quizzically non-judgementally; a man?

And take it from there. :)

Answer 3

i think he's in the closet and that was his way of asking you out. Now its time for YOU to make a move..

Answer 4

i have a hard time looking people in the eyes if i dont have something i consider useful to say to them. also if i feel like im putting more effort into a conversation than the other person i get paranoid like im pestering the person.

some people just have communication issues but if you really want to know more about the person you will need to make some effort to find out.