Do you think i am right to feel totally ashamed of myself?

Question

Saturday night, i went out to a niughtclub with my friends, and a guy i know texted me asking if i was out, and i told him where we were, and he and his friend came to the club.

Me and this guy were kissing in the club, while our friends were dancing, and my friend, myself, this guy and his friend ended up going back to mine, and i slept with the guy who texted me earlier in the night.

The next morning, i felt disgusted with myself, ashamed and dirty.

I was drunk at the time ( No excuse, i know).

My friends said not to worry, because its not like he was a stranger, i'm 18 and single, and it was one off, thats the first time i ever took a guy home.

What do you think??

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Answer 1

I think that this is a perfect example of why it is illegal for people under the age of 21 to drink.  

Answer 2

YOU HAD THE FIRST **** THE WAY YOU DESERVED IT

WHY SHOULD YOU FEEL BAD WITH THE NEW EXPERIENC?

THERE IS NO COMMITMENT OR RELATIONSHIP.

THIS IS LIKE KISSING OR HUGGING, NOTHING MORE.

DO NOT ATTACH ANY SENTIMENTAL FEELING TO IT ANYMORE

AFTER ALL YOU HAVE DONE IT WHEN YOU WANTED IT, AND MAY BE SOME INTOXICATION TOOO.

Answer 3

you might get a son/daughter in a year

thats what i think

Answer 4

That's life...I think you're being a little hard on yourself..

Answer 5

Life is full of experiences. This was one of them. If Thats the worst thing you've ever done... I think u'll be quite alright. you learn from it and move on.

Answer 6

if it goes against what you think is right then you shouldn't do things like that. Yes, its not abnormal, but if it doesn't feel right then its not.  Are you a terrible person? Hardly.