Do you think i should ask my wife for a 3 some? [ladies only] weve been married 25 years, time to spice it up?

Question

Do you think i should ask my wife for a 3 some? [ladies only] weve been married 25 years, time to spice it up?

Answer 1

No.

Answer 2

Chances are that if you have been married for 25 yrs. and she has never asked for a 3some then she is not interested in one. If I were you I would go out and buy some new p**n that has all different kinds of 3somes in it.  Then have her watch them with you. You can say little comments when you see something you like and just kinda feel if she is interested or not.  

Answer 3

NO..it will be the beginning of the end for your marriage. I know, I did that for my husband of 20 yrs...we are no longer together...spice you want? Then try romancing her again...remember when you cared enough to put her first and foremost....that she was the one that you wanted to impress....call to say hello and  see how her day is going......stop by and pick some flowers (if u have access to wild flowers) just because you want too... walk up behind her embrace her and tell her how good she looks to you... it's the little things that have stopped over the years that is the spicey ingredient youre longing for... if you love her...find the spice between yourselves....don't be fooled into thinking a 3 some is good for your marriage .........

Answer 4

No. I wouldn't ask for a 3some. It would really hurt my feelings if my husband asked for that! I would wonder why I wasn't enough by myself. Think about it. A threesome is going to spice up your love life, but it's just going to confuse hers. It's a pretty selfish request from a man. If you want to spice things up, try some new positions, do it somewhere you wouldn't usually do it, videotape, rent some p**n, get her some s**y lingerie....but don't bring in another woman.

Answer 5

If she's into that why not?  It can't hurt as long as everyone involved is okay with it. :)

Answer 6

if she is into that kind of stuff, sure. But women who are getting older might take it the wrong way. Like she isn't enough for you because she is getting older, women have a way to look farther into things then they should..lol. I am sure there are other things you can do like roleplaying...or using toys. Good luck.

Answer 7

No harm in asking, but really at your ages, no one else wants to see you naked so chances are your not going to get anyone to do a threesome with you.

Answer 8

No.  It's offensive.  If you're bored, spice it up YOURSELF - stop relying on others to bring to the table what YOU are supposed to be able to bring....emotion, passion, etc.  I'd wanna file for divorce if you asked me and I'm pretty open minded...not to mention what if she likes the other guy.  You just brought a host of bad karma into your life...not worth it.  YOU need to get some ideas and use them in the relationship.

Answer 9

You've been married 25 years and you're asking a bunch of strangers if should ask your wife for a 3 some.?  After 25 years, you know if she would go for inviting another person into your bed. My guess is you need to talk with her so both of you can come up with ideas to spice it up!

Answer 10

sounds like ur unhappy not her

Answer 11

I think anytime you introduce another person into your marriage, it's a recipe for disaster.  I think it's human nature for the need to be celibate because jealousy is another instinctual emotion that we have.  Don't do it if you value your marriage.  Find another way to spice it up.  You don't need a third party.

Answer 12

You should know the answer to this, its your wife!!  Best of luck!!

Answer 13

  I'm assuming you're joking, but just in case.  

  She will be pretty grossed out by it and you.  If you want to stamp out any desire at all that your wife has for you, this is a great way to do it.  She will be really offended at the ladies only c**p too.  How would you like to try to have a three-some with another guy?  Is that a turn on for you?  That will be how she will feel.  It is not a turn on.  Again, I'm assuming you know this and are just playing around with all of us.  I you were to actually suggest this, she would be thinking all of the things I just wrote and be wondering what kind of intelligence level her husband is operating on that he can't figure out that it's a huge turn off for her on his own.

Answer 14

I assume you mean adding another man to the mix.  Since I am more than positive that you are interested only in her pleasure.  So, what if she falls for the other guy?  

Answer 15

it will do the opposite of what you want. it will ruin the relationship!!

Answer 16

I think if you have done everything under the sun as a couple...and I mean everything. Then yeah maybe a 3some would spice things up.

Answer 17

Buy her a d***o, p**n video and some thigh high boots if you want to spice things up.  A threesome won't fix your issues.  I can assure you that there are more problems after a threesome than before in most cases.  Don't throw away 25 years over a few minutes of s*x.

Answer 18

h**l Yeah..but go for the Four-Some! The more the merrier!!

Answer 19

no.

its offensive. she will get really mad.

Answer 20

yes I do believe it's time to ask your wife for a divorce.

after 25 years you haven't learn a thing about fidelity, honor, love, care, and lots more.

next time you want to talk about spicing, make sure your talking about mexican food.

oh by the way? Im a guy, not a girl, girls would probably open up a can of whoop *ss on you.

Answer 21

no that's disgusting

Answer 22

Sure, bring in another man and see how you like that.

Answer 23

No get some p**n videos!! I would be mad if you were my husband.

Answer 24

yea sure go ahead i dont see nothing wrong with it.i'm assuming you want to bring another female into the relationship?and if so ok

however dont be mad or think different when she wants to bring another man into the relationship.it goes both ways. good luck!