Do you think i should dump him or not?

Question

I been going out with this guy for about to be 5 months. It was great at first, i would see him often and we had fun. Now he completely changed. He could be rude at times. Before it seemed like he would always wait for me to go online so we could chat, but it seems like now he just doesn't want to talk to me. He's always telling me that he loves me and such but by his actions sometimes i don't believe him. I like him and all, but he's always asking me to have s*x with him, i told him no because I'm only 15 and not ready, it took him a while to respect that until he finally did. Also I haven't seen him in like a month. Its not all bad things with him though. Sometimes we are on the phone talking for a long time. He could be a really sweet guy and all, he even told me that he loves me so much that he could see himself marrying me in the future. Should I break up with him or not? and if no what should I do for him to be like he use 2.

Answer 1

Don't be wasting your time with this loser, he's playing you. 5 months is not a long time for this relationship to suddenly go downhill. He's showing his true colors, lose him and find someone who appreciates you.

Answer 2

follow ur heart talk 2 him ask y he has changed and if its cuz y didnt hav s*x wit u then break up wit him hope it helps

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Answer 3

At that age minds are constantly changing. Sounds to me like he just wanted to have s*x with you, and when you didnt give it up, his interest in you diminished. But dont be surprised, youll soon learn that most men are like that. If you dont, theyll find some one who will. Dont give in, theres a special man waiting for you.

Answer 4

Well you know him and I don't, but judgung from what you have written, I think you should. It sounds like he has lost interest a bit and I know what you mean when you say he can be really sweet. But he asked you for s*x and it seems like he's just messing you about, one minute he seems really interested, the next he doesn't. Good luck!

Answer 5

I think he's looking to get laid.  Sorry so blunt, but he has changed because you won't have s*x with him. You did not mention how old he is, but if he is a teenager that is all he is thinking.

Do not give in to him - live your life the way you want to.

If I were you, I would treat him the same way and see  how he likes it.  Don't always be available for him.

Good luck!