Do you think i should forget this friend? he was fake?

Question

Well i was friends with this guy for 6 years- the type of friend you think you will have forever, well he got married- didnt tell me, never invited me to the wedding, last year he started iming me, alot, he got a divorce, he kept saying "hey what r u doing tonight"? but never making any plans in advance really,, he never called to explain why he got a divorce.

Well i had the feeling he may have been trying to hook up with me,,, then after some time i didnt hear from him,, been a year since i have now, i just looked at his myspace and it says hes married... some new girl...

Should i message him to say hi? or just forget it move on?

We were good friends and i miss him but i dont think he wants to be my friend anymore. maybe i shouldve met him when he asked me last year but i was scared of his motives.

Answer 1

I think you were right not to answer him when he called awhile back. Always go with your gut feeling. Its called intuition.  I would just forget him and move on.  Sorry, thats probably not what you wanted to hear.

Answer 2

This is over and done.  Let it rest.  

Answer 3

wow thats very odd. if you miss him, just contact him and talk. if thats doesnt go well... just keep the memories.

Answer 4

Forget about him and stop looking at his myspace.

Answer 5

Sounds like a leech move on eeeew

Answer 6

I have a "friend" who rarely ever calls me. I hadn't talked to this girl in about a year, and suddenly out of the blue she calls me to tell me she'd been in a car accident. No one got hurt, and there were barely any scratches on the car (oh yes, she sent me pictures). I could tell she was just going through her contact list to tell everyone she could, because she kept asking me for people's numbers in the conversation lulls. She was basically just doing it for attention, not to reconnect after a year of not talking to me. The whole conversation - even when we got over talking about her car accident - was about her. She never asked me about what I'd been doing for the past year. She's a very self-centered girl.

Anyway, my point - some people just want to keep friends so they have them, but don't actually want to be friends with most of them. If he calls you again, just be polite, and chat. But it sounds like you won't get a real friendship out of him, so don't try. I certainly wouldn't respond to his flirtatious requests - if he's going through girls that quickly, he's obviously a douchebag.

Answer 7

Forget that loser he has some serious ulterior motives and you don't why he even broke up, i am sure it's his fault you do not need the drama and heartache it isn't worth it  

Answer 8

Sounds like you be staying in contact with someone who you thought was your best friend, but who didn't tell you he was getting married, who you assumed he wants to get with you and who has now remarried. He doesn't seem to committed to things and a little confused. Maybe you should tell him the truth about how you feel and see how he feels. Sounds like the guy doesn't tell you a lot though already.