Do you think i should get an abortion?

Question

im 13 years old. and NO i did not have s*x. well...heres the story:

i was at a party with my friends, we thought it would just be some middle school kids, but some highschoolers, and maybe even some college kids showed up, idk why. but anyways. long story short. i was raped. i wasnt using the pill and im pretty sure the guy didnt have a condom on, but anyways, now im pregnant, i know for sure. and ive already told my parents. my parents and i have been having a hard time figuring out what to do. we are extremely NOT financially ready to have a baby. so i dont think keeping it is an option, im 13 i dont know how to take care of a baby! and my parents work all the time. weve been thinking about adoption, but idk. im scared about actually HAVING the baby. but idk what to do. im not going to take these answers seriosly....but i would like some insight/advice.

thanks...

Answer 1

its hard to say i had an abortion and ive regreted it everday since i had it and if i could go back and change my decision i would i really think you should consider adoption  

Answer 2

Sweetheart you really need to think about you and your baby.

You don't want to live the rest of your life not knowing what he/she would have looked like and regret having an abortion. I honestly think adoption is the best answer. I know you must be scared. I have had a few friends who got pregnant in high school and they attended home school for a year to have the baby. They still have normal lives. And so many people including me respect them for it. I know it wasn't your fault but it's not the babies fault either. Things will work out for you:) Just pray...

Answer 3

You poor girl! You should definitely report this creep to the police, you may not be the first girl he has done this to. He doesn't deserve to get away with treating you this way! I hope you decide to give the baby up for adoption because there are so many people out there who will love that baby no matter what.  I am so sorry this happened and wish you the best.  

Answer 4

Do what you feel is best. Never do anything unless your 100% sure about it. Good luck. Sorry this happened to you!

Answer 5

First, your parents should report the rape to the police.

Second, yes you are very young to have a baby! It wasn't your

fault at all. And its not the baby's fault either!

Third, im agents abortion! But i don't judge people when they

do it! Everyone has different opinions. but...

"IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU UN-PREGNANT,

IT MAKES YOU A MOTHER OF A BABY -YOU- KILLED!"

Fourth, if you want to put it up for adaption... you might as

well keep it if you went through all the hard work!

But think about it... 10 years from now, you'll be thinking

of what your baby could of been. Dont take it out on the baby!

Dont get me wrong, you are very young! You haven't even started

high school! & your high school years are some of the best years

you will ever have!

Hope you make the best decision!

I wish you the best!

  

Answer 6

If YOU feel that's the way to go then do it.  

Answer 7

Om my goodness! This must be such a rough time for you! *Insert virtual hug here* Anyway, I do NOT think an abortion is a good idea. The employees make it seem like nothing, but it is a huge risk. Women can die if the doctors are hasty or if the instruments are not clean. And also, I have heard from many, many women that even if they have an abortion, they greave uncontrollably on their baby's supposed due date every year. It is a huge responsibility and burden to know that you have made the decision to end your innocent baby's life. Put the baby up for adoption. This is YOUR baby, whether it was planned or not, it is part of you. Ultimately, it is up to you, but I don't think an abortion is worth it. You will be in my thoughts during this hard time. I hope it helped!

Answer 8

if i were in your shoes, i believe i would have the abortion.  i just couldnt go through a pregnancy that was the product of sombody raping me. it would be terrible.  im terribly sorry for what happened to you,  I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 9

In my opinion, abortion is never the way to go. One only gets one life, and how would you feel if you never got a chance to live? Even if the baby isnt "alive" yet, it will be, and even tho you got raped, and i know it must be hard for you, its not your place to take a life, its Gods. So, in my opinion, if you cant take care of the baby yourself, give it up for adoption and give him/her a chance at life! Just think about how bad you'll feel looking back in 15 years about not seeing your baby, or letting it have a life. I guarantee you'll regret it down the line. Just my opinion. Hope it helps.

Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 10

Do not let people guilt trip you into making a decision. You are 13 and are not responsible enough to raise a child(like every other 13 y/o).

To the person that said that abortions are dangerous. Child birth is dangerous. When you are 13 your body just started being able to carry a child.  

Answer 11

Im sorry this happened to you. I know how you feel. Ive been raped b4 too, but never got from it. I personally feel you should not get an abortion, Its not the babys fault this happened. It is the guys fault. You should at least put baby up for adoption and give him/her a chance at a good life. Im  5 months pregnant right now with my first baby. And I am scared as h**l to deliver too.  And I feel the same as you about the stretchmarks and the getting fat. lol. If you did get attached, which i have yet to get attached to mine, then there are plenty of people and places to help you out. I Wish I had the money to adopt the baby for you. lol. well, good luck in your decision making.

Answer 12

I think that you are your parents need to report this to the police. Second, maybe you should consider adoption