Do you think in marriage one person always loves the other more or are they equal?

Question

Do you think in marriage one person always loves the other more or are they equal?

Answer 1

I think in marriage one person only love me and live with me without any problems and we complete our future with us.

i need only real love from his heart.

Answer 2

not really a question of love but of strength maybe? at different times one person holds the relationship together more than the other.  For example, if one party is depressed and their spouse is trying their best to extricate their loved one from that h**l, they've become the backbone of the rltnshp.  the clinically depressed person can't express love @that time, but later on they will help their partner when he/she can't do it for themselves.  ppl.don't always know how to express their love, so the other person who feels it's unequal might just be unaware of their spouse feelings.  

Answer 3

If one marries for "love", then the answer is no. In most cases men marreid from more than one woman has more emotions towards one wife than others.

In fact, sometimes people marry for aims other than love. Perhapse they want to have many children. Also poor people need someone to care/fund them, some ill people need women to nurse them and get benifited, some women has their husbands passed the way, so they need husbands to take care of them....etc. numerous reasons !

With full glory, i could say that Islam is the only religion that took this point "into consideration". Actually, the reason is that God is the one who created this law.

Most of us marry for love, we find a single wife is the most suitable. And it would be unfair/impossible to love more than one.

Answer 4

I believe that there are couples that do but it's not the majority.  

I also think there are cases that even if both spouses love each other equally,  one may show it more than the other for whatever reason.

Answer 5

They'll never be equal.

Answer 6

Well that would be really difficult to find out.... you see love can't be measured or quantified, but it is definitely seen and felt.

I think in every relationship, not just love there are some people who are givers and the others are takers and then these roles are exchanged according to the situation and the needs.

With that said.... in love and especially marriage you will always find one person who is used to giving more than the other partner and sometimes the spouse (be it man or woman) takes this "giving" for granted and then it falls under the norm ... "You are supposed to do that" and they might go a step further to take advantage of this action. This is when the gap starts and problems or ill feelings might fall. If both spouses consider and keep in mind that nothing other than LOVE compels them in this relation to act in a certain manner, their relationship will be crisis for sure. Cos the giver would eventually feel used and abused and taken for granted and THAT def. hurts any strong or even solid love relation.

Bottom line even in love and marriage its a GIVE AND TAKE relationship and both spouses should give and continue giving willingly for it to work out and flourish.

That's just my opionion.

Answer 7

Can't really say,cause everyone is diffrent,sometimes people will be in fights and there love will go lower for each other.