Do you think is true that women are not capable of loving someone unconditionally?

Question

They love only money and choose a man not because they love him, but because it pleases them to be loved by him?

Answer 1

not every women are like this.. it's totally depends on the person.. some are love by heart

Answer 2

If you're not a woman hater, then you know d**n well the answer is no, it isn't true. Only a woman hater would generalize and classify women as sub-human like that.

Maybe you should ask your mother this question. I wonder what she would say? (Unless, of course, your mother is the one who's responsible for those "anti-female moments" you sometimes have, in which case I wouldn't recommend talking to her at all.)

Answer 3

Well, I don't think so. It depends. I mean in my country there are women who can still love their husband eventhough their husband does physical abuse. And about women pleased when she is loved, that is true. Who wouldn't be pleased if she/he is loved?

Answer 4

Some can't love someone unconditionally. Some do love unconditionally. Some are too trusting and need to allow conditions, such as no criminal background, willing to work to support the family, etc.

Answer 5

It's pretty clear that both the asker and the first person who answered are attracted to the wrong kind of woman if they actually believe that women love money and will go for any man who has it. As for the person who mentioned going for women preferably between the ages of 18 and 24, let's hope he is within the same age range. Women that age don't like older men unless they are gold diggers or are looking for father figures.

When I was younger, it actually creeped me out when men were trying to entice me with money. I felt they were wanting to buy my interest and they had nothing else to offer me. I always passed them up.

Answer 6

women are fully capable of loving someone unconditionally, as much as, if not more, than men. certain women do not want to love certain people, just as certain men do not want to love certain people unconditionally either. i cant believe that guy with the previous comment. maybe the woman you lovedjust didnt love you.

Answer 7

Having grown up without love in my childhood. ALL  I want Is LOVE nothing more.  money can't buy love. with the way things are going now days. money does NOT last long. LOVE last forever and when your lucky enough to find the right guy all that matters is LOVE nothing more.

I have known many women who loved their husbands NO matter what they have helped him when he was sick and couldn't work they have stayed right by their side through good times and bad times. YES a woman can love unconditionally just like men can. just because their are a few women who have married for stupid reason that does NOT ALL women do it.

Answer 8

Yep - you are right. That's all I love is money.

I'll let Yahoo know we don't need this section anymore, seeing as you have all of us figured out.

Answer 9

I never thought about money when I was young, and it certainly never occured to me to choose a man on the basis of how much he earned.  I never asked any of the men I went out with what they earned.  True, most of them had more money than me, but that wasn't difficult as i never earned much above the minimum wage anyway.

Anyway, nowadays most men expect their wives to work, don't they?  So I don't see that there's any advantage to having a man with money, since you'll still have to go out to work anyway.  So what difference does it make?

Answer 10

If that were true then there wouldn't be a plethora of women who stood by their man when they lost their job, got sick, and generally just fell on hard times.

Not all women want a man for his money, not all men want a woman just for s*x.

Stereotypes don't benefit anyone and for anyone to continue to perpetrate them just continues the cycle of stupidity.

Answer 11

That is nuts. Not all women are gold diggers.

Answer 12

Men who believe this are men who've only had experiences with such women. These men spend big money and purchase fancy things to attract materialistic women, only to later get angry when get what they asked for.

I ask that when you read postings as such, or when you here a disgruntled man speak this way of women, think about your mom. Or all the women who're close to you. And ask yourself do these women fall under this stereotypes that many men wish they could cast us all under. If not every woman you know is like this, then that should answer your question.

And remember, you are what you attract. If you're a man of worldly things (meaning cloths, car's, money, and lose women) then you will attract a woman who is the same as yourself (Birds of a feather flock together).

Answer 13

Unconditional love is the love a parent has for a child; it is NOT the love between 2 grown-ups.  

The love between grown ups is always conditional (a contract is made, called the "marriage contract").  When the terms of the contract are broken divorce commonly occurs. Obviously gender plays no role.  Sometimes couples stay together even when they can't stand each other.  This isn't love; its desperation.  Desperation has nothing to do with love.  

By contrast, you can't divorce your own flesh and blood offspring.  You are always their parent, no matter what.   It is an entirely different relationship.  This parent-child bond is unconditional.

Answer 14

Now I know I'm about to sound like such a girl, but at first the question intrigued me and my answer was going to be a pretty backed up "not at first" lol. But then to my utter dismay you generalized the female race as gold diggers!! I myself am with a man who was unemployed for about 4 months and basically mooched off of me, but did I still love him? Oh very very deeply so. Since you are obviously stuck in the dark ages, let me catch ya up and tell you many successful marriages include women being a sole source of income, and some even prefer it that way, men and women have unconditional love when it is based on the connection of their souls, money is not even in the mixture when true love evolves. Yes some women may not be looking for that, and some may just want that cash, but to say women are not capable of unconditional love when the cashflow stops is proposterous.

Now if I were to answer the straight out question if women are capable of loving unconditionally my story is quite different. I may generalize too, but I think a MUCH larger percent of women have trouble accepting men as they come, in fact more like 99.9%! It's practically female's nurturing/controlling nature to feel the undeniable need to mold a man as we see fit. Then through trials and tribulations, we usually succeed in compromising on the big stuff that actually affects ourselves and the relationship, and grow to accept their personalities. Which I actually believe men are much better about accepting a woman with her flaws, but of course some won't put up with our petty c**p either lol. But with time and love evolving women and men can love one another truly unconditionally and look past flaws, baggage, money, even infedelity.

I leave you with this also....

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."

Answer 15

Funny how no one addresses the part about their self-centered want to be adored.

My bad, one poster did sort of

Answer 16

I had more money than my first husband, and I had more money (and less debt) than my second husband!  I do love my husband unconditionally; unfortunately, he has BPD and can't reciprocate.  I mean, he loves me, but not unconditionally.  Still, I love him.

Answer 17

It makes sense that in the days where women were completely reliant on men, a woman could love a man for that ability to be able to support her and her children

Fortunately these days most women (at least in the western world) are capable of supporting themselves, so a woman has the option of being with a man purely because she loves him, for himself and nothing more

Answer 18

Sadly, the first response is correct. She'll love him unconditionally under the condition that he has money. She loves the fact of being showered with adornment but when the well dries up it's off to find another well.

Answer 19

I think it is true that men are not capable of loving anyone but themselves.  They usually don't even love their kids.  Men love only s*x and comfort.  They choose a woman not because they love her but because it pleases them to have someone to have s*x with and cook for them.  Some times they pick women as trophies to broadcast their sexual or business prowess.

Doesn't sound so good when the shoe is on the other foot, huh?  I think you are a woman hater and should just get comfortable with being alone.

Answer 20

What does that have to do with gender? Yes we are capable of loving unconditionally. What a silly question. And no, it has nothing to do with money.

Those who said women only care about money; you really should find some better women to hang around.