Do you think is wrong if a married guy says he enjoys communicating with you?

Question

Even if there are one or two times a month friendly communications and he says he enjoys them and your friendship, although his wife doesn't know you but he acknowledge the fact that he's married and seem decent.

But, he's one of those guys who like to innocently flirt and once he see it coming runs away!

Answer 1

I seems innocent for him but to you it may be like he is leading to believe that he cares about you. If you don't want trouble, you should make it clear to him that you just want his friendship, nothing else

Answer 2

Married men have no business flirting period. They made a committment. If you want to get technical about it, the fact they are hiding it from the spouse means its cheating. Ya don't have to have s*x for it to be cheating. Tell the little jerk to knock it off and go back to his wife or you will tell her. See how fast he cuts off communication with you then. Trust me, the guy is scum, and you want no part of any man who can't keep it in his pants, or who has a wife or kids. If you were on the other side of this, were his wife, would you want to know your spouse was flirting with another woman? NOpe, you would want his head on a platter and to kick him to the curb. Don't get sucked into this kind of thing ever, it makes you look bad. He might be a kur for doing this, but you shouldn't be a pawn in his cheating games. Its selfish of him to do that to you and his wife.  

Answer 3

He's trying to feel you out to see if you'll have an affair with him.

Answer 4

Why do you feel guilty flirting with a married man.  Please, there is nothing innocent about flirting...Your last sentence puzzles me. Are you interested for more?????  obviously there is something wrong if he is telling you his wife doesn't know about you. Watch and see ....pretty soon you will be writing, is it wrong for me to be in love with a married man.  

Answer 5

Hopefully you're not naked when "communicating" with this married man.

Seriously - if you were in his wife's place,  think about how it would make you feel.  

Answer 6

Call his wife and ask her what she thinks lol.

Answer 7

Yes, totally inappropriate.  That is time he is stealing from his family...selfish.

Answer 8

Flirting is not cool, and his wife doesn't know about it, so this seems very shady to me and I would cut things off.

If it were truly friendly conversation only and his wife knew about it, then there would be no problem.

Answer 9

I think doing anything the wife doesn't know about is wrong. Deceit is deceit. He's lying to his wife. If you can't have a transparent relationship with him, with his wife fully aware of everything, then it's wrong.