Do you think it's bad if a 26 year old university student lives with his parents still?

Question

I have one year left in my studies and I'm not sure if staying with my parents makes me a loser or what...

I'm gonna move out as soon as I graduate and find full time work, but that's not until next summer which is kind of a downer, since most of my friends are now on their own.

Are there any other 26 year olds still living with the parents?

Answer 1

no hun because u sound smartt

Answer 2

I would say that if you're still a student, it makes sense to live with your parents. BUT I was a full-time student when I got my own place at the age of 17. I had 30 hrs of lectures per week, and I worked 40 hrs per week. And THEN I got home and studied some more. It can be done, but it depends what you prefer. The good thing about living as a student is yhou don't get judged on "adult" standards (and by that I mean standards of working adults, not studying adults).

I generally wouldn't have a problem with it. If you're putting money aside for a house, I woudl also say it makes sense to live at home while you're still able to. What's the sense in paying out on rent when you can save your money?

I wouldn't go home with you though if you were expecting a wild night. The idea of the parents in the next room doesn't do it for me.

Answer 3

a co-worker's 26 yo son just moved out on his own.  so yeah, there are other guys your age still living at home.  if you've been consistently in school full-time all that time so that you're not able to support yourself and still finish school that quickly, then i don't think it's so strange.  but if a guy your age is working, and has been working on a salary that would support him, yeah, it's very weird to still live w/the parents.

ya gotta do what ya gotta do, and if living w/your parents while you finish school is what ya gotta do, then do it no matter what anyone says or does.  just make sure you get your own place ASAP after you finish school!!  good luck!

Answer 4

Dude...it depends on your plan...do you have one? Like when will you move out or is it a never ending plan. If you are smart, you will save big money...most kids are not that smart though...How awkward will it be when you try to bring a girl over??? Geez...no privacy. Take Care

Answer 5

No my brother still lives with my parents and he's 31, that's sad

Answer 6

i dont think so you are still getting a education so thats good!!

Answer 7

Sounds like you have great parents !

You are not a Loser !

Obviously your parents dont have a problem with this right?

Dont worry about what your friends do - do what you have to do.

If your parents are willing to have you home while you finish school and Graduate, Then that is their gift to you. Your gift to them is to graduate and become a self sufficient adult. Dont be in too big of a hurry to move out.If you feel guilty  - Treat them out to a movie or dinner once in a while and tell them how much you appreciate them and all they have done for you.

I know many successful people who stayed home until they reached 25+years  One person is a Geologist and in his 40's and still lives at home - His parents are very proud of him and he has many friends and a huge bank account. He is attractive and a really nice guy.He had moved to a pacific Island for several years and came back.He is saving for a home to buy (cash). Why pay someone elses rent

His parents want whats best for him - so do yours

Dont pay rent to someone else   now -    

Answer 8

As long as you are going to school I think it's ok.  Doesn't make you a loser.  You would be a loser if you were living with them without a job or going to school.  You're lucky to have parents that are there for you.

Answer 9

no i like that i dont find it bad myself

just depend on ur self

Answer 10

It shouldn't be a problem as long as you're productive. I mean whether you're in school or working and help out at home. Don't just take it for granted. When you start to have a job and earn good income, take them out for dinner to show your appreciation. :)

Answer 11

Depends on what your looking for.

Yes... 26 is a little old to start experiencing Real Life issues on your own (Rent, Utilities, Shopping, Cooking, Privacy, etc).

However, you are also in a situation that allows you to go to school financially.  Your saving a h**l of a lot of money by NOT wasting it the above items.  

If your relationship is strong with your parents, and your doing things for them/helping them out, stay at home for the final year.  

Dont be using your "extra" money on c**p though.  You should be either saving it to buy a home or a car.  When you leave in a year, you better have enough in savings to cover the cost of first/last month rent, deposits, furniture, TV, etc to set up your REAL bachelors pad!