Do you think it's hard for wealthy men to find themselves a nice decent wife without attracting golddiggers?

Question

I mean rich men who are weary of all the golddiggers out there who would only use them for their money. Rich men who really wan't a legitimate, nice and respeceftcul woman who's going to love him for his character rather then his wallet.

Do you think those wealthy men have it tough when searching for a true companion?

Answer 1

No.

Answer 2

Maybe they'd have an easier time if they refrained from flaunting the money they have.  Drive a Toyota instead of a Porche.  Wear a Timex, not a Rolex....Stuff like that.

Answer 3

One way to do it is to attract women from wealthy families.

Answer 4

I have no idea. The super rich men always seem to go for the shallow bimbos, because they seem to enjoy the bottle-blond and silicone look more than they care for protecting their wallets.

Donald Trumps wives are always such DEEP THINKERS, for example.

Answer 5

if i was really rich, i wouldn't mind using it to attract beautiful women around me. hey, i get to use them for their body, and they get to use me for the life style i provide. if both are happy, then it would be a good relationship.  

let me also tell you that women with lots of money rarely date someone who has less money than them. they tend to want to date richer men. somehow men are more generous in sharing their wealth with their partner, than vice versa.

Answer 6

good question, probably not, cuz they wud marry some1 famous also, so they both have money and wudn't want the other person's money cuz they already have alot

Answer 7

Get to know her family to get to know her.

Answer 8

Yea i am not even that rich and i have my defences up for gold diggers its generally pretty easy to spot them. When your first dating if they expect a present for a one week or one month deal then i would say watch out if by the second month she has still yet to even offer to pay... actually by that time i have already replaced them with someone better.

Answer 9

OK lots of ways to go here. Ill just jump in and say this.

If its  American woman, chances are better than not a wealthy man will have to wade through an ocean of shallow, lazy gold diggers in order to find the rare good woman. Each new generation of women in the US and much of the western world have embraced an ever increasing entitlement attitude,  they feel that they are owed a lifestyle rather than feeling the need to actually earn something on their own.

Answer 10

Only if she's richer

Answer 11

Yes. If I was rich and looking for a spouse (or companion), I wouldn't let anyone know how rich I was. That way, he would fall for me for who I am, not for my money. And if he's the right person, he would understand why I was not completely honest from the beginning. Unfortunately, I'm dirt poor and will never have that problem!

Answer 12

No they don't have it tough. Some of them look for these type of women. If you are with a woman and she know that you are rich and every time you talk about money her face lights up. Then why are you with her? Those men are not stupid and they know when a woman is with them for their money. You can tell by the things she says and what makes her happy. It's not hard to spot a gold digger once you start talking to one. And besides most of them are not very intelligent and talk about stuff they know nothing about. Just to try and sound important in front of a rich man.

If you don't believe me watch shows like the Flavor of Love or Rock of Love. Just listen to how the women on that show act, look, dress, and talk. And you will see within minutes that those women don't have much intelligence or if they did they wouldn't be on those shows. And if you and everyone one else can see how they act, don't you think the man they are after can see it also? Of course they can. But most rich men don't care about having a respectable woman who will not settle to be treated like a s-l-u-t. Those men like that wont one thing, s*x no matter how dumb the girl is.

Answer 13

Act dirt poor.

Answer 14

Women and men both have a problem with attracting lazy, opportunistic people.  Why specify just one gender?  Anyone who is seriously interested in a mate should look for qualities outside purely physical ones.  If they don't then they should just accept what they get without complaining ad nausseum.

Answer 15

ya, most women just want money

Answer 16

Yes, I do think they have it tough.  Most of the women after them are golddiggers, and these men know this.  That's why they take so long to get married, and then even after they do, they get f***ed over anyway.  I think it's very sad.

Answer 17

Do you think beautiful women have it tough when searching for a true companion?

Beautiful women who really want a legitimate , nice and respectful man who's going to love her for his character than her looks/s*x.

Answer 18

It would depend on what he had to offer to a woman besides money. If he was a smart, funny, and genuinely good guy, then his chances of attracting a similar woman go up. If not, he's SOL.

The only time I'd ever date a rich guy is when he fully understands that there's no way in h**l he's going to pay for me, unless it's my birthday.