Do you think it's time for marriage? and what if he said it's not time?

Question

I have been with my bf for 4 years we have a child together and my 2 from the previously relationship we also stay together

Answer 1

YES

Answer 2

Don't you think this would have been a good question to ask before you had a child with this guy? You know there is a saying, "why buy the cow, if you can get the milk for free?" He's probably thinking the same thing, since he has been with you for the past 4 years and still hasn't married you.

Girl, you have to learn that if you want to be a married woman, then don't give it all away for free. You have to save something for after the marriage or what's the point in getting married.

Answer 3

I don't know you guys or your relationship well enough to say that it is/is not time for marriage. If you've been with him 4 years, have a child, and live together, and he is saying no....you have a big problem on your hand if you are wanting to get married. The way he sees it...you two have a kid, and have been together this long, what will marriage change? You really need to discuss things like this before moving in together. At least agree that marriage is an option within a set amount of time. You can't make someone marry you. Good luck.

Answer 4

You should really know the answer to this question by now. I would seriously think about the reasons why you are not sure before you do. And if he doesn't know by now there's a problem.

Answer 5

Nobody can tell you when its the right time for you and your boyfriend to get married.

That is entirely up to the 2 of you.

Answer 6

i think it's to late...

Answer 7

In your heart do u want to be with this man forever. Do u think about marrying him all the time. Is your relationship healthy and happy if so yes its time .  

Answer 8

Marriage was due before you had your child.  You are way over due.  

Answer 9

is he supporting you and the kids?

The time for marriage was before the kids came.

If it's not time, what is he hanging around for?  The free s*x?

Answer 10

Ye its time....

Answer 11

It's time only if you both are ready. You can't pressure somebody into it if they don't want.

Answer 12

Everyone has to decide for themselves but I would think that after 4 years and 1 child together, the conversation of marriage is long over due. Good luck.