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Do you think it's weird if the girl asks out the guy?

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my friend thinks that it should be up to the guy to make the first move and that if a girl does it she's just desperate.

what does everyone else think?

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i think its ok,

i mean like, even though i asked you out, it doesnt matter.

Even if you asked me out i'd LOVE you the same

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nah its fine.
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Compromise. Tell her to tell the guy to ask her out.
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i used to think that it was desperate but apparently guys love when girls ask them out it shows your confidence x*x
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I prefer to be asked but I know ladies who ask and yes the guys say yes.
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alot of guys are afraid of rejection so if the girl asks them out it makes it alot easier on them and earns some respect for the girls
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Girls can do anything boys can do, so, no. In my opinion, it's not wierd.
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i wouldn't personally ask a guy out, but only because im scared of rejection.
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No, if the girl's confident enough, go for it.

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It's not weird at all!

The guys are expected to do everything, maybe they'd like it if a girl asked them out for a change.
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no it is actually a turn on for me. it boosts my self-confidence and i would def say yes..unless she is too clingy
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If a girl has the 'cajones' to go and ask a guy, why not?

It's not desperate if it's mutual: it becomes a relationship.

Only thing is that it's the same reason a guy might not: rejection.
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I think it's ok, us guys have to face rejection most of the times, it would be nice if the girl asks out a guy because it shows confidence which guys love.
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Chicks ask me out all the time, nothing weird about it.
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yep!!!
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I think it's a lil weird . And yeah , I do think it makes you look a lil desperate .
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No.

Sometimes guys arent sure girls like them so they dont want to make the first move out of fear of being rejected.

I asked my bf out and we're better than ever.

He had to think about it because we cant hangout as much as we want to.

but yeah its fine.

not desperate
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normally i prefer the guys to ask me out. not the other way around.. but idk if yu really like him theen just go for it. the only reason i dont ask guys out myself is because im afraid of being rejected. but its always gud to try; who knows? maybe hes interested. or maybe hes shy so hes waiting for yu to ask him out.
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I personally don't think it's weird at all, but I know there are some people who feel like the guy should always ask the girl out.
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I think it's okay for a girl to ask a guy out.
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If you know the guy likes you and that he is just too shy to ask you out then you should. Other than that, it is a bit strange for a girl to ask a guy out. It's not about being desperate, it is just I don't know the word to say.
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no way!!!
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Its fine.
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Its not a big deal at all.. go for it
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Its fine to ask a guy out.

I have done it before, you know when you have them feelings that you cant wait any longer lol.

Go for it, what have you got to loose.

Good luck.
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its not weird
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No it isn't in fact me and my friends find it refreshing and impressed if a woman asked us out.

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i think it's totally fine for a girl to ask a guy out
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