Do you think it is easier to pick out the negative qualities in a person or positive?

Question

Do you think it is easier to pick out the negative qualities in a person or positive?

Answer 1

negative.simply bacause flaws stand out and are more obvious than good qualities. sad but true.

Answer 2

It's definetly easier to pick out negative things in people. People are naturally negative. If you think about it, you actually have to try harder to be nice. Does that answer your question?

Answer 3

We as humans always pick out the negative qualities first.  It's just our nature.

Answer 4

I think the negative cuz weve grown up in a society that focus' more on the negative side of everything than the positive so when you look at someone you automatically find negative qualities because thats how its always been.....like when you look at a guy you might see that he doesnt have ajob so hes a "bum" or you might see that his shirt is dirty so you assume that hes not clean or even that you see him buying shirts at say walmart so hes obviously not rich right?......instead of seeing that he quit his job because of something that happened at work and he couldnt stand to be around that meaning he not only has a moral conscious but hes not afraid to stand his ground for something he believes in....you also dont see that maybe his shirt is dirty because he actually did some physical work meaning he knows how to put a good days work in no matter what also maybe hes buying that shirt at walmart cuz he wants to save the money used for buying an expensive shirt to buy his mom a nice birthday present or even to buy someone else a shirt cuz they dont have the kind of money to do that themselves......you see america judges people and anything by seeing the negative first and the positive last but after the negative comes out the positive means almost nothing.....so i think it would be easier to see the negative

Answer 5

the way you see it ll show you

wen sumthing positive happens then u ll like the person in a positive way,

wen he do sumthing negative u ll mark his negative quality.

its up to you how balance both the things and decide whether he  has more positive or negative quality's

its a human nature, first u ll believe what u see, but ur heart ll help u to decide, u just need ears to listen.

Answer 6

It depends on how that person behaves.

If someone is kind, I see kindness. If someone is rude, I see rudeness.

Answer 7

Hello,  BOTH...it depends on your focus, as to what you get back...I focus on GOOD only...If someone told a story of bad, worse and still bad....I find something GOOD...There always is...no matter what!!!!  GOD BLESS!!  Mary

Answer 8

Thats based on whether you like that person or not. If you like someone, its automatic to point out good qualities. But if you have a dislike towards someone then of course negative qualities come to mind first.

Answer 9

It depends on the type of person you are. If you like to see the good first then you will pick out the positive. If you like to see the bad, then you will pick out the negatives. Personally I like to think of both sides.

Answer 10

(depending on the person) i try to pick out/look at  the positive and try not to look at the negative.