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Do you think it translates as he truly doesn't love me? Men and Women ..opinions PLEASE!!?

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Last night me and my fiancee were watching this weird show on tv.. and it brought up the topic of would you still love me if...?

So I asked him.... would you still be with me if I were in a horrible accident and my face was mangled... would you cheat on me? He said "Well I wouldn't consider it cheating" !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and he said "We've discussed things like this before and agreed we'd always remain friends, no matter what"!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

okay now we've had discussions like this in the past.. for example like if either one of us couldn't have s*x anymore what would we do..lol we came to the conclusion that we'd stay together but for obvious reasons..receive s*x else where if NEED be.. My concern with how he replied to my question last night is the "hypothetical" was if my face was horribly disfigured..everything else was perfectly functionable..

So, as you can imagine this REALLY bothered me.. I didn't make a stink or anything, but it really hurt inside. It made me feel like he must not truly love me as I truly love him and would care what he looked like ESPECIALLY if something happened to to some horrible accident or something..

What do you guys think.. Does he LOVE ME or THE WAY I LOOK?

Honest opinions please... It may appear silly BUT it really hurt my feelings.

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  1. I'm not saying to re-evalutate your relationship, but you need to have a serious discussion and tell him how his answer bothered you. He might say he was just joking, or he might say he would really leave you if your face got all mangled.

    At that point, you might want to re-evalute your relationship.

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