Do you think it will work out this time?

Question

I had a booty call relationship with a guy that I met at school. It lasted only 2 months because I was desperate for a boyfriend.

Now I realized that I enjoy being single than settling for less. We haven't spoken for a year and I dated other guys during that time but I didn't click with any of them.

I am single right now so I decided and have been thinking about him allot lately. I missed the s*x with him.

So I decided to call him to see if he would be interested. At first I was afraid that he might not be interested in hearing for me since we haven't spoken for a year. I finally go the courage to call him and I left a message to call me back. Surprisingly, he called me back and I was excited. He told that he had been thinking about me too.

He even asked me if I wanted to come to his house to spend a night since his parents away. I was willing to go but he cancelled since none of us had condoms and I had to work the following morning at 6:00 am. We might be meeting up today and I can't wait.

So do you think it will work out this time?

Answer 1

No.  You are looking for a relationship for all the wrong reasons.

Answer 2

you never know - give yourself another chance.

Answer 3

I dont think so, you have mentioned having s*x with him but nothing about how you feel.

If this is just a s*x based relationship then as long as you both want that and nothing more it will work.

It has to be a cold, callous, unfeeling relationship just to be having s*x with no emotions, so if you feel you can do it then do it.

If you are looking for more than this then why did you so readily accept to sleep with him straight away after not seeing him for a year.

Are you so easy that you will sleep with someone on the first night ?

You must know that a relationship is more than just s*x but I think thats all you want since you were so eager to have it with him and you did say you missed it when you broke up.

Tell him you want a s*x relationship with him and nothing more and I dont think he will deny you, good luck.

Answer 4

If you are looking for another "friends with benefits" thing, then I definitely think it could work out.  If, however, you are hoping for more with him, then unfortunately probably not.  It sounds like all he cares about is the s*x, since he didn't really want to hang out with you unless you were going to sleep together.

If you want him to be your boyfriend I would hold off on sleeping with him until you know what he wants from you.  If you are hoping for a serious relationship and he just wants no-strings s*x, then you'll just be in for more heartbreak in the end.  Remember that you decided that you'd rather be single than to settle for less than you feel you deserve!

Answer 5

Yeah it will work out if all you want is s*x......

Answer 6

honesty i think that if it works out it would be great but to me it seems that both of you are just in it for the s*x and if thats what you want go for it but don't be surprised if it doesn't go the way you want it

Answer 7

Huh?! You're kidding, right?

No, it's not going to work out.  

Answer 8

This will never be a relationship but if you enjoy the s*x and you understand the consequences then so be it.

Answer 9

I think you're asking because in your gut you already know the answer, but you want someone to tell you that it will work out!  Sorry!  (not to say you can't enjoy the s*x, though....and great job staying SAFE!!)