Do you think it would be silly to have a wedding like this?

Question

to have a silly wedding.. the girls wearing pigtails, the boys wearing sunglasses. and the rings being ring pops, and instead of kissing each other l**k the ring pops?

I want your honest opinions, and answers please.

Answer 1

I know you hear this all the time- but it is your wedding...so do what will make you happy.  Who cares what other people think.  But make sure you convey to the guests the silliness of it so they do not show up in formal attire.  

Answer 2

I think it sounds very light hearted and fun, but on the other hand it seems to also be making light of a serious commitment to each other.  Could be hilarious for the rehearsal, though!

Answer 3

It sounds like tons of fun!! Although you may regret it later it's ok you want to do what you will love. If this is your style by all means go with it! In 20 years if you look back and can't believe you did that then you can renew your vows.

Answer 4

I personally think that that would be tacky, and that the couple would seriously regret it. I guess some couples may like it, but I think pigtails, sunglasses, and ringpops is a bit much.

Use candy to make it more whimsical but still adult. You could get some pretty looking things that would be fun and unique but still look adult. Have lollipop bouquets, or mix in candy with the flowers. I think this would be a cute way to spice it up without looking tacky. Get those huge colorful ones that look better than they taste, those could definitely work in/as a bouquet. You could get smaller ones for boutonnieres.Have the "flower girl" throw pass out small candies instead of throwing flowers (throwing candy on the ground could get very messy once the ceremony was over). Make centerpieces with candy!

Give a small toy (inexpensive but not a cheap plastic thing) or more candy as favors. You could have a self-serve candy bar.

Put the bridesmaids in colorful dresses. Have them get funky hair-dos that are still adult.  The men may look odd in a brightly colored tux, but you could do a bring cummerbund/ vest or a bright shirt.

Feel free to get creative, but don't try and turn something associated with growing up into a tacky child's party.

Answer 5

sounds fine.  The brides and grooms r 5 - 10 right?

Answer 6

I think it would be fun!! Do what you want. If it fits your personality then go for it.

My FH and I want to keep it fun. None of this stiff, uniform, rigid ceremony stuff. We think it's too boring and it doesn't fit us.

If I can get my way, I'm going to wear flip flops down the aisle. I'd prefer to be barefoot, but we'll see. (It's just because I can't stand heels, no 'flower child' reason)

My FH has a hard time staying 100% serious for a long period of time, so I know something funny will probably happen during the service, he's a natural comic and loves to get people to laugh.

We plan on rocking out to a Relient K song as we walk back up the aisle together. We haven't planned out everything yet, but I know we're going to definitely keep it light-hearted and fun.

Don't be afraid to do the same!!

God Bless and Congrats!

Answer 7

Your wedding is supposed to reflect your's and your fiances' unique style.

Some might find it a little childish and some may even be put off by it...

But if that is what you and your man want, by all means, go for it!

Personally, it sounds like a lot of fun!

Good luck!

Answer 8

It's okay but remember that this is your special day and if that is how you want it remembered, than go for it.  

Answer 9

Honestly, it sounds like you're turning your wedding into a slumber party.  I've seen the guys wear shades after the ceremony, as they walk down the aisle leaving the church.  That's cute.  

Or maybe incorporate your ideas for the reception - a time of fun anyway.  The girls could put their hair up after the wedding, you could switch out the rings, and make it a theme for the party after the wedding itself.  You could even give out candy as favors to get the guests involved.

Just ask yourself what you want to see when you are 80 years old and looking at your wedding pics.

Answer 10

I personally wouldn't want that, but the wedding is supposed to be about the two of you.  If that's how you choose to express your love go for it.

Answer 11

that would be pretty stupid.

sorry.

Answer 12

The pigtails and sunglasses are fine (unless you're in a church, in which case sunglasses might be considered disrespectful). But l*****g the ring pops just seems silly in an immature way.

Weddings should definitely be fun, but they are also occasions of taste and respect. Be as creative as you want while keeping that in mind.

Answer 13

Um... yeah that is dumb. But to each his own. Personally if I were a bridesmaid I wouldn't go along with it and if I were a guest I would be offended.  

Answer 14

that's cute. hey it;'s your wedding do what you like.  Yes I think its silly, but that's what I love about it!! people forget that a wedding is supposed to be fun for you and your groom, so do it the way you feel will be fun!!!

i love the idea

Answer 15

I don't think that's stupid, first of all.

Second, it's your day! Do what you want. I think it's cute.

My husband and I got married at the courthouse because we can't afford a real wedding yet, and we couldn't afford rings, so we used ring pops too! Except I couldn't pass up even one kiss from him! But don't listen to anyone that puts it down; like I said, it's your day, do what you will love. And besides, I'm sure that would be a really memorable way to celebrate, for you AND your guests!

Answer 16

SOUND KINDA CUTE, BUT I HOPE YOU WILL AT LEAST KISS YOUR GROOM,  RIGHT AFTER l*****g YOUR RING.

Answer 17

what ever theme or idea you want as long as it makes you happy is all that matters.  I had a few friends that had themed weddings (Robin Hood was one and all the men wore tights and leotards).  I had another friend have a Friday the 13th wedding and everyone including them wore black outfits, and they wore ball and chain baseball caps.  I've seen so many different themes online and on tv so yours doesn't sound silly at all compared to others.  The point of a wedding is to have a memorable day, and for the bride and groom to be happy, so if this is what you want, then DO IT!!!  Best of luck and congratulations.

Answer 18

Its a bit childish and might be regretted later.  Its nice to have a wedding how you want it, but only adding certain elements and not overdoing it.  

Answer 19

yes... it would be making a mockery of your wedding day....one that while it may seem cute now, you will regret 10 yrs from now.

Answer 20

I think its cute.  If that's what you want then that is what you should do.  It's your wedding and don't settle for anything less then what you want even if other people don't like it.  

Answer 21

I think it would be incredibly silly, immature, and something you'd regret later on. Really, can you honestly say that 25 years from now you wouldn't regret actually having that first kiss with your husband.  

Answer 22

Will your man actually go for this? Hey, its your wedding, you do whatever you want and you have the right to make it your own, just make sure your man wants the same thing too!  

Answer 23

i think it would be fun..if thats what u want. it is u and ur grooms day to do up however u please. my friends husband and his groomsmen wore huge top hats at their wedding.

have fun with it because it is the day u will remember forever. howver make sure the priest who marries u dont think u r making a mmockery of marriage and will marry u but i think its a fun idea.

dnt know about pig tails, maybe rabbit tails with the ears and have big eggs with the rings inside..lol..

Answer 24

That would be an awesome wedding if all participants were 3 years old.

Answer 25

i'm not answering this b/c there's no way you're being serious

Answer 26

that is adorable, if you are in kindergarten.