Do you think its ok to leave 3 y/o kids and holiday with my husband??? and..?

Question

well i feel guilty and sad ..but at the same time I feel i need a getaway with my husband.

I'mm an Indian ..in India..and id be out of country for ten-fifteen days.

thanks!!!

Answer 1

Of course it's OK. You work hard at a 24 hour a day job. You deserve a break. It's natural to feel guilty, but I'd be worried if you didn't. It shows you love your kids and you want to do the very best you can for them.

Answer 2

go ahead and do it, i am 17 and my mom and dad leave on weekends all the time and go to vegas, and i am left in charge, they usually leave and then tey're like, cya monday , and i am fine, it's taught me responsibliltiy if anything

Answer 3

It's always difficult for a mother to leave her children for any length of time, but it's also important for a healthy marriage that you make time to be with your husband without the children.  As long as you're comfortable with the person you're leaving them with, go and have fun.  It will be good for you, your husband and your marriage.

Answer 4

no brainer =]

have your gettaway, you shouldnt feel bad, your only human honey, you need ur breaks too ^^

Answer 5

Go on a little getaway!! Its always good to take a breather for the parents and kids. But have someone respectable watch the children while you are gone. You deserve it, especially having twins!! One child alone is a ton of work! Good luck!

Answer 6

take it! just make sure you have a responsible adult caring for your children and someone that won't freak out at the slightest mishap.

leave doctors name & adress and insurance cards for emergencies.

i wish i could go!! then you can come back refreshed and less stressed!

Answer 7

take one..

just make sure you live the kids with a friend or family  member who will be sure to take care of the children.. =)

Answer 8

It will be hard on them having both parents gone.Don't know if I could do it.I'd just go away for the week end,not that long a time right now.

Chances are after  the first few days you'll be sick with worry and won't enjoy yourself.

Answer 9

You should not feel guilty as long as you are leaving them with a responsible, loving adult.  Everyone needs a holiday from time to time.  Take a break, you will be a happier mother when you get home.