Do you think its pathetic that I've never had a boyfriend and i'm 14?

Question

ok so im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend or ive never kissed a guy. Do you think thats pathetic?

Answer 1

No, it's refreshing. You are 14, enjoy it! Have fun with your girlfriends. Looking back I started to date a boy when I was 15 and my life circled around him. I lost good girlfriends because of it. Enjoy being 14 before you know it you'll be 24 having no time to spend with your girls because of a job, house bills and all that lovely stuff that comes with being an adult.

Answer 2

No, not at all. Whats your rush? Take your time, you will have lots of opportunities to have boyfriends.

Answer 3

Definitely not pathetic. You have plenty of time for boyfriends. Enjoy the single life you have at the minute. Don't be under pressure to get a boyfriend just because everyone else does. Go at your own pace

Answer 4

No.

your only 14

you will Find someone later on.

Answer 5

Actually I think it's pathetic that you measure yourself that way.  Slow your roll, sister.

Answer 6

no, it's refreshing actually.

You have an entire lifetime for any and all experiences- don't rush into them.

Answer 7

No.  I never had a girl friend until I was in graduate school as an officer in the Army.  We have been married for over 30 years.

Chill out kiddo.  You have plenty of time ahead of you to worry about guys.  Concentrate on graduating school for right now.

Answer 8

i am 14 and im not a s**t and i have had 9 real boyfriends and have kissed six of them an dwas close to having s*x withb one of them.

Answer 9

Christ no!!

I thing it's kind of revolting that girls have boyfriends so young n are so determined to do 'things' with them. Take things at your pace.

If people take the p*ss out of you because of it s***w them!! I had my first kiss when I was 14 and felt pressured, and my first real boyfriend when I was 15 nearly 16, people called me frigid because I didnt want to jump into bed or even kiss someone I wasn't 100%sure about.

But now, I'm 21, in an amazing relationship with the man I love and those girls (and boys) have spent their time fooling around and 3 out of 6 of my mates from school (no longer friends) have babies.

I think I came off better really.

Take your time hun, theres no rush and you are perfectly normal!! And its definately not pathetic.

If its not out of choice, thats fine too. You'll meet someone someday that makes your stomache flip and it'll be worth it that he was your first kiss and not some weird pervy guy at an under 18s disco!! :)

I respect you for that hun.