Do you think its tacky when a woman tries to take another man from a woman? read the details?

Question

i have a cousin who has a buffy the body type body- i don't have a body like that- i mean i am curvy just not like that- i'm shaped with less on my backside-

when a guy looks at me or talks to me and i am around her- she makes it a habit of hers to stick her butt out- so he'll look at it- and then he is so mesmerized and distracted by her looks- he refuses to look at me ever again and tries to get with her-

what kind of cousin does this- even if she is 16-

what kind of guys do this-

its tacky and kind of makes her seem insecure- its not a competition on looks-

its also rude the family photo albums i gave to her and her family are hidden- its like they aren't shown- but in the back behind all the other photos- like its done on purpose- its so rude-

seems like some serious jealousy!

Answer 1

Tacky ... tacky ... tacky!

Answer 2

She sounds like a nut case.  Just don't hang around her anymore.

Answer 3

She sounds like a real winner, this cousin of yours.  Yes, she's behaving rather shabbily.  I recommend not being around her a lot.  There's no rule that says you have to hang out together.

Answer 4

thats tacky alright and tacky is a very gentle word for that shameless behavior

Answer 5

You are not the one with the problem and I pray that you realize this, she is.  She is horribly insecure and is using her body because she thinks it is the only thing that a man would want from her.  Somewhere along the line someone didn't love her enough or she didn't get the right message about a woman's mind and the things that truly attract a man.  She's 16 and if she's doing this at 16 she's going to be in trouble by 17 if you or someone else doesn't sit her down and have a woman to woman talk with her.  If she is woman enough to flaunt her body then it is time for someone to explain to her that men will "use" her body up just for her doing that exact thing and go on about their business.  Be the bigger person, step up and talk to the "child" because that is what she is acting like, a "child" who wasn't taught better.  She is jealous and shouldn't be.  She needs to be more confident and have more self esteem.  Perhaps a talk with you will help.  Good luck!!!

Peace & Love  :)

Answer 6

Of course it is tacky-

not to mention rude.

It is obvious your cousin

is feeling insecure with herself.

However, that is no reason for her

her to treat you as she does.

Maybe it's time to find a different

cousin to hang out with.

Answer 7

It takes two.. no woman an take a man from another woman if the guy really loves the woman he is with.. so he is not committed to you.. in that case.. move on and find some guy who respects you.. no man who is happy and in love will leave a woman to get together with another just for looks unless the relationship is not a deep one anyhow. so she doesn't steal him.. he too is shallow.. find a guy who is respectful and more mature and he won't fall for your cousins tricks and acts of seduction.. x