Do you think its wrong for me to date married men?

Question

i have the gift of gab my friends tell me. i meet married guys all the time and start dating them. the last guy i met ,i was on a cruise ship , this was a str8 people ship. i saw a guy i like started talking to him,,bagged it.. is this wrong?

Answer 1

If you think they aren't happy in their current marriage, I can't see why not. Although, its not right, its his problem. If you make him happier go for it.

Answer 2

YES!

Answer 3

i don't think it's wrong for u...

u didn't make any commitments to the wife or anything.

i think that if he's willing 2 do it with u he might as well do it with others....

so i don't see why u shouldn't grab that chance..

but anyways, i think it's wrong on their side... they are the ones who are married, who made a commitment, who swore they would be by their wives side in the good and the bad...

so let them deal with their faults as they wish...

however, if u know the wives.. i would say it's wrong... if u know the guy's wives and u r 2 double face... and be like "oh i'm ur friend i love u 2 death" but in their back u be like "oh h**l yeah i'm s******g ur man b1atch"

tthen u r definitely being a hypocrite and u aren't a really good friend... so i would say u r doing something terrible 2 those women

Answer 4

Well I might suggest asking their wives.

Answer 5

Definitely, you wouldn't want someone cheating on you if you were in a serious relationship, would you? and anyone that finds that out in the future that you date will most likely be turned off-, nobody wants to be with someone whos gonna cheat on then. (and even though YOU didn't actually do the cheating, it will still be taken that way.)

Answer 6

Totally!

Answer 7

I've been there and done that. I think you know the answer to your own question. I dated a married man, he left his wife, we moved in together for 5 years but then we split up. If its not you it will be someone else but,doesn't make it right. I'll never do it again.

Answer 8

Yes, it's wrong for anyone to date someone who's married. It's really not fair to his wife.

Answer 9

As long as your conscience lets you sleep at night I suppose that's OK. I personally wouldn't do it because many lives--especially if there are children involved--could be ruined. True, these married men are grown up, responsible for their own actions and should know better (I assume you aren't kidnapping them at gunpoint and forcing them to have s*x with you) but it's my opinion that this kind of behavior contributes to much of the strife in this world and you have to know that your responsible for part of that.

Answer 10

depends....

is it wrong for you...  your single...not responsible for others action.. you are impacting another relationship... but it does take two to tango...  would you want someone doing what you are doing to your relationship????

Answer 11

If you were committed to someone would you want them fooling around on you?

And you don't know what you'll get out of fooling around with married guys, like an STD (most likely you're not the first one he's fooled around with behind his wife's back), or maybe an irate wife with an attitude or her older brother into martial arts banging on your door.

Answer 12

You don't really want an asnwer to your question, because you see nothing wrong with what you are doing.

Answer 13

yes i will try to be nice but according to your picture your a guy, so i think its wrong to seduce married men i am not trying to offend you but you asked ;]  

Answer 14

Personally, as long as you do not try to break up the marriage, I do not think its wrong -- although I personally wouldn't do it unless it was a close friend.

Only about 4% of males are openly g*y -- but studies show that about 12% engage in ongoing lifelong male/male s*x.  Most of that 8% marry to hide.  Nothing is wrong with enjoying them, as long as you are careful not to deliberately hurt their wives.  *IMHO*

Hermes

Answer 15

no not if you make them happy

Answer 16

that is so wrong. What do you think the wife feels?!

Are you just going to let them cheat on them? And most of all, THER MARRIED. Hullo?!

Btw, i'm not saying that being g*y is wrong. I'm bi so yeah.

Answer 17

Are you a guy? Yes it is wrong when you "bag" married men.

Answer 18

yeah its wrong and you already know that answer....so whats the point of your question? like you are going to see the light and stop cause its wrong. just remember what goes around comes around!

Answer 19

yes it is wrong.  why don't you try a unmarried man?  

Answer 20

Well yes it is wrong, but maybe the wives should learn to hold on tight to their husbands because they know people who are attracted to their man are going to flirt in today's world.

Answer 21

Yes, it is wrong. The married men you are "bagging" are responsible for keeping their commitment to their wives but you still know right from wrong........if you didn't you wouldn't be asking us. Also I would worry about STD's/HIV if they are willing to have such random s*x with you then they are probably acting just as randomly with other men.

L

Answer 22

Haha, you must be really outgoing and attractive.

It's not wrong for you, it's wrong for them.

Answer 23

Yes, because you are helping them cheat on their wives.