Do you think its wrong to fall in love with ur bf's best friend if...? *ADOLESCENT*?

Question

this isnt about me, its about my friend.

she lost her bf to a shooting. they shot her bf cuz they were asswipes and he saved her life and took teh two shootings, he died later in her arms.

they were like soulmates, they loved each other very much, three years later, she ahsnt been able to move on, she changed, and hasnt being herself. but once she got back on her feet, she started hanging around her bf's best friend (they've known each other since kindergarden) and now shes starting to fall in love w/ him, is that wrong or fair to her dead bf?

Answer 1

first of all soo sorry for your friends loss he truly was her soulmate...to take a bullet like that takes guts and it shows how much he really loved her ..

well she is starting to move on and the reason for that seems to be her late bf's friend..he seems to be her foundation (i hope hes a nice guy) i think it would be fine i mean after all her late bf prolly would have wanted her to move on and be happy and now she is...with his friend...i dont think there is anything wrong with that

good luck and god bless her

Answer 2

awwwww

its fine

im sure her late bf wouldn't want her to spend her whole life alone

its okay

she will never get over her old bf im sure

8)

Answer 3

wow thats really sad that they killed him but you cant bring him back if her bf really loved her then i bet he would want her to be happy even though it isnt with him where ever he is. thats wat love is about sometimes you love someone so much you have to let go, in  this case he was forced to leave her so dont think it is wrong support her after all shes been through dont you think she deserves to be happy no matter with who it is?

Answer 4

That's a tough situation! I'm sure he would want her to be happy. Maybe she (and him) have found comfort in each other since they both were so close to him. It's probably brought them closer together. I don't think it's wrong if the both of them are happy and don't have a problem with it. It's been 3 years, so she needs to move on.

Answer 5

you can't help who you fall in love with

Answer 6

thats totally ok. and he really loved her so he would want her happy! so i would tell her go for it!

Answer 7

To me it seems fair.

After all, he would want her to be happy, and not spend her life wallowing over him when they can't be together any more.

And if he trusted and liked this guy well enough to consider him his best friend - so much so that this is even an issue (they must have been like brothers) - who would he trust more to take care of her for him now that he's not there to?