Do you think more men or women initiate affairs?

Question

I say the married person has more to lose, so I bet the single person usually is the one who pursues the affair. Unless the married man is a total flirt with past experience having affairs, I doubt he'll make the moves, especially if he has always had previous morals. Same goes with a woman. I feel a lot of single women are more emotional than all men, so they're the ones who are desperate to have affairs. Married men's wives sometimes keeps them satisfied, so I don't see their needs as high as a single woman's need to have an affair. I feel if a man is semi happy at home, he won't cave into temptation, but the single woman will. If the man is the single one, I feel for sure he'll pursue an affair.

Answer 1

I would guess that it is about 75% men and 25% women from my experience in seeing how people act.

Generally, the man chooses a young girl that is not experienced enough to know that she is being seduced with his stories of how "horrible", "frigid", etc... that his wife is.  She generally thinks she is just being a helpful friend, until he tricks her with the pity play.

There are some women that like to seduce married men, but most of them are hookers that do not want affairs, just money.  

Answer 2

I think more men than women have affairs. However if a woman is unfaithful I think she is more likely to have an affair than a one night stand.

Answer 3

I absolutely agree with the first answer.

If i found out my husband was cheating it wouldnt make a d**n bit of difference to me who initiated it.  Both can say no.

I think both sides initiate it. One has to say "you want to"

and one has to say "Yes"

Answer 4

I think you are trying to justify something.

Answer 5

an affair involves both men and women, so it doesn't matter who initiates, the end result is usually bad for someone.

Answer 6

Mmh i think men but still some women are i am not sure but i think both parties

Answer 7

A lot of married women initiate affairs too, didn't look at that angle, did you?