Do you think my friends wrong for doing this?

Question

ok well i understand she has a boyfriend and he's probably the most important thing in her life as she makes it sound but it's really still no reason to like completley ignore me well we were talking on aim and when we were talking she was with her boyfriend and i was like hello? hello? because i was talking to her and she wasn't replying. and then finally i was just like are u there???? and then like 5 minutes later she was like u have half my attention and will has the other half lol and im like okayy and its kinda been going on for like 3 days im just sick of her ignoring me for him and i feel like as much as you love your boyfriend you souldn't ignore your friends and make them feel like c**p and 10 times less important

Answer 1

You really need to talk to your friend alone. Tell her you don't feel like she is taking this friendship, it all very to come by good friends. But she needs to hear from you and no one else. Tell her friends are very to come bye.

Answer 2

Well the first thing that comes to mind for me is how I used to be the same way. Just let her know that boyfriends may come and go, but friendships last much longer, if she is willing to keep her friends. If this ignorance continues, then just back off a bit for a while and let her know what it's like to go without you for a few days. Once she realizes that you are much more important than him, she should come back to you. If not, then maybe this is just her way of telling you that she either A) needs a break from you or B) doesn't want to be your friend anymore but doesn't know how to tell you.

Answer 3

I agree.  She is going through that phase where she thinks she is "in love" and hormones are kicking in, so whenever Will is around, you will take second place.  Whenever she starts exhibiting this type of behavior, don't play second fiddle.  Just tell her you gotta go and then IM other friends who aren't talking to other people at the same time.  

Answer 4

i think u need to tell your friend how she's making u feel. i agree with u about this. just because a person is dating someone. that doesn't give the right to not give some time for friends. in my opinion people who ignore their friends for reasons like that. are not your true friends.

Answer 5

it could be that her boy friend does not like her to talk with other guys. just leave her alone and look for someone who respects your friendship

Answer 6

the same thing is sorta happening to me right now. my best friend is doing the same thing to me with her boyfriend. she said she loves him and blah blah blah so she totally ignores me when i text her and she's with him. anyways, i do think your friend is wrong ignoring you. she needs to remember that your friends, unlike a boyfriend or girlfriend, will always be there for you once that person breaks up with you. that's when they realize that they have friends, when they are lonely. it sucks that your friend is doing that to you and she should realize that she is wrong. if you guys are best friends, then it's extra messed up. you're best friends for a reason. you must've been there for each other through a lot of things and she should remember that and pay less attention to her boyfriend and a little more to you before it's too late and you guys lose your friendship. i was close to losing my friendship with my best friend and it sucked. i wish you well, and hope your problem is solved.

Answer 7

ok hun this is what i think she very happy she has a man and of course he is very important to her but your still in her life let her no how you feel about this but don't think she well leave her new man for you cuz it just don't happen like that let her no your there for her but your not going to be treated like that

things well go over a lot better