Do you think my sisters husband sounds like a loser cause i do?

Question

He is 43 and didnt graduate high school until he was 20 yrs old.

He didnt go to college.

He has had the same full-time job for 12 yrs BUT only makes a lousy 9 dollars an hr.

He was 25 and still a virgin when him and my sister started dating.

She was 21 and also a virgin when they met but she said they didnt wait for marriage they started having s*x while dating.

They have been married 16 yrs and she said she is very happily married to him but i have told her many times she could have done better.

Answer 1

You sound jealous.  Why else would you be unhappy with her being happy?

Answer 2

Why do you care if she is happy?

Are you just scared that you might end up like that?

Answer 3

if shes happy get over it

Answer 4

You sound like a snob. Does he beat her? does he keep a roof over her head? Does he love her? These should be the things you worry about, not how he's lived his life. At least he works and keeps her happy!

Answer 5

No! He sounds like an honest man that loves his wife....and should bitc* slap his s-i-l

Answer 6

  Based on the information above, they are doing well compared to so many couples I know.  He and she like the situation, and "No," you don't know if she could have done any better.  

I hate to come down on you so hard, but I admire her husband for being a stable husband.  He may not have reached to your standard of excellence, but how is your life?  I hope you find someone as decent as he.  Please, I do not mean to be mean--- but a man who will work deserves a star.  A man and woman who stay married together for 16 years deserve another 16 stars, and add to that that he didn't even finish college, give him another 8 stars.  He and your sister have 25 golden stars as far as I'm concerned.  Be happy for her--- She is so much better off than the lonely, word battered wives of college educated men.  Some of these men have too many distractions and temptresses because of their level of success.  ----Toni D.  

Answer 7

its your sisters life,

if shes happy be happy for her

putting down her husband is only going to

mess with the relationship with ur sis

he only makes 9 an hr, at least hes working

Answer 8

be happy for her then

many people who are college graduates,live in a big fancy house making hundreds of thousands of dollars a year,new sporty cars,looking beautiful are so unhappy stressed out ,on drugs ,drinking,cheating,beating their wives and or kids while the world thinks they have a perfect life,but they don't.

money and things do not insure a happy marriage or life.

keep it real,some of the happiest people are the ones who outwardly appear to have the least.

knowing GOD makes a person rich and content with life as it is .not knowing GOD is a recipe for selfishness and misery.

Answer 9

Who the h**l are you to judge who she wants to be with??? What because he finished high school late and didn't go to college that automatically makes him a loser. Like honestly do you think you are so perfect and you have life so figured out you can sit there and judge other people and make them feel like less.

What does it matter, college doesn't decide who you are as a person. Its people like you who make me sick. What because you have a degree in something it makes you better BULLS***!!

Maybe your sister is happy with him for who he is and not what he was or what he did or his education. I honestly believe he is probably a better person than you. Your sick and wrong and should find a better hobby and mind your own business.

You should never have kids because this world doesn't need any more ignorance there is more than enough to go around. Grow up! Get a hobby! Better yet take your degree and wipe your A** with it! Have nice flush.

Answer 10

grass always look green in other side of the fens.

I don't see there is any thing wrong with their life.

Only thing i see wrong is you.

Seem like you are jealous of the life that your sister have.

If not, than what make you think you are better than your sister?

First of all he love her, good to her, and some one she can be trust and depending on.

He may not much money but he never been unemploy. They boy work and provide comfortable life for their life style. The main point of a married couple they are happy.

why don't you look in other point of view and try to understand, what make them happy, what make them bond together.

You should happy for your sister that she have found her love and she is happy

Answer 11

You sound like my future mother-in-law.  How many people went to college and could not find good paying jobs after? Years and money wasted for what?

He's dedicated to his job and your sister.  Both of them waited to have s*x into their twenties (which essentially turned out to be with the right person).  Would it be better if he had screwed around all through his teens?

You sound superficial and shallow - as if money and sexual experience ensures happiness.  It doesn't.  How many sucessful, attractive, and exciting couples have you heard of that break up?

She is happy!!! Why do you care???

Answer 12

This is classic for every sibling - we all think our brothers and sisters could have done so much better.  Maybe your sister could have done better - but it doesn't sound like she is unhappy.

If he hits her, if he drinks too much, if he doesn't work, these are things to go to war over and say he is no good for her.  

But you said he isn't like that.  So, just be polite.  He is her choice.

Answer 13

She may have done better but it is none of your business. If he makes her happy and there is no abuse in the relationship, she doesn't need your nose in her decision making. Butt out, busy body.

Answer 14

just let her be happy.  

Answer 15

He did graduate high school and he's held down a job for 12 years.  Really, that's not bad.  For me the number one loser alert is not having a job.  If he takes care of her and she is happy, that is all that matters.

Answer 16

I think if she is happy then you should stay out of it !

Answer 17

Please excuse me but YOU sound like a royal pain in the @ss.

Your sister is happy, her husband works and is apparently faithful and devoted. What is wrong with that that YOU decide he is somehow deficient.

You really should have no opinion in this matter but choose to denigrate him.

How well are you doing in YOUR choice of mate that you decide to run smack on your sister's husband?

If I had to choose a loser here I think it may be you my dear.

He has found love and a happy marriage, you on the other hand sound like a meddling spoiled brat.