It's all well and good taking time out of your own schedule trying to help others with whatever you can. I do it all the time (even though my motives vary). However should the value of the help that we provide not outweigh the inconvenience (or even harm) that we endure because of it? For example, should I always lend things that I own, to (trusted) people whenever they want it, regardless of whether I'm using it?
Should the decisions we make in our lives be such that it pleases as many others as possible? For example, should I opt for a career move to please my family members; even though I feel it's none of anybody else's business?
Should everything I ever say be carefully worded not to reveal any frustration and anger that I may feel towards someone? I realise, there are ways to let people know that I am unhappy about the way they do or have done something; without being mean. However, aren't there situations where it's more appropriate to express rage (at least verbally)?
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