Do you think people who 'break out of their shell' have learned to I.D. with their signs in harmony?

Question

Hi Everyone!

So I was just thinking....

Have you ever seen someone 'change' their personality?

Like within a few years or months they go from being totally introverted, shy, nice, smart, etc....then all of a sudden they turn extroverted, popular, nice, fun, etc...when before no one took real notice of them..now everyone wants to know them type of thing.

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To me I don't think they changed, but broke free of their masks, and broke free of their struggles, and therefore are one with their sign in harmony.....does this hold truth?

I mean I have obsereved this myself in people that 'changed' their personality....

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Can a shy Leo...find their charm & roar?

Can a reserved Virgo break lose...and warm up faster to people?

Can a serious Aquarian...become flamboyant?

Can a indirect Arian...become direct & fun?

.........No need to answer those...lol. just examples!.......

So do you think their innner struggle become resolved...and harmony happens with in to identify with yourself better?

Answer 1

No i don't think that a Leo can change like a snap maybe they will be a bit calmer when they get older but really change i say no.

Answer 2

I have witnessed this in myself. At one time of my life, I was reckless, didn't think before I spoke, and made a lot of enemies from being too overbearing and disconnected. At one point, I lost all of my friends by acting in a selfish and rude manner, without caring at all for their feelings. I was so shocked by the result of my attitude, that it forced me to look at myself and realize what I was doing wrong. Overtime, I learned to act in a more Libran fashion, making sure to take others feelings and wants into consideration, and to act with diplomacy and charm. I learned how easy it was to push others away, and that you can't always think only about yourself.

So yes, I do believe that life is here to teach us a lesson, and it's up to us to work towards being the best people we can be. That's what success is, ultimately. So yes, in life we go through many changes, and often they are ones that are necessary and meant to be. I know that in the last few years, I have gone through drastic changes, and I know that I will encounter more along the way. I welcome those changes with open arms, and hope that they can take me to a higher level of conscious to be the person that I know is within me.  

Answer 3

Hi Jo!

I think that people can change their temperaments if they really want to. I think that everyone has the chance to change if they don't like something about one's self. It may be difficult. But if they really want to change it is possible. Say the Virgo is sick of acting reserved and boring. If that Virgo really wants to change they can. I think at first there would be a struggle. However, a harmonious result will come to effect. Just my personal opinion. Great question!

Answer 4

I think many things about the Ascendant could be considered, including transits of the slower moving planets. The quicker planets can be like visitors who come in and visit occasionally and leave, but the slower planets are the ones who will camp out in your 1st house for a long time.

Also keep in mind that the Ascendant progresses. I've never been the same since my Libra Ascendant progressed into Scorpio. It was definitely like breaking out of a shell.  

Answer 5

I like how you think Jo, Because i am a lazy/shy/reserved Gemini, way to question the zodiac brother!

Ive heard so many great things about us, And i dont seem to be any of them, especially the successful flirts they can be, My luck with women is non existant and ive never been in a relationship.

I've given up on the dating games and im in it for the long haul now it seems, Im mutable and i deffinately look forward to the change, Someday i hope to break my chains.

No matter who you are, dont ever waste time, because its all you have in this world, That and love if your fortunate...

Answer 6

Great question!!!

Maybe it is more a matter of recognizing who they truly are than actually changing.  Feeling freer to be themselves for whatever reason.

It would be interesting to consider what transits such a person might experience.  Maybe something involving Mars to make them assert themselves more.  Such as Mars transitting their Asc or Sun.  Or a Mars Return.  Or a Pluto transit in 1st house.  Just a few things to consider.

Answer 7

i don't find the relation between your main question and the details you wrote, but yeah the details you said had happened to me....  

Answer 8

well, speaking for myself(a cancerian) i am always changing. ugh, my moods change faster than the colors on a chameleon.

its really confusing.

but idk...i really do think a person can change. im not one for giving 2nd chances, because im a very cautious person, but i do think a person can change if they want to. but only if they really want to.

some do break from their shell, while others sulk inside of it. it all depends on their passion for a different life.

-cancer w/ aries rising *nice questions*