Do you think some kids just arent met to have friends and fit in?

Question

I mean no matter what they do join sports and clubs whatever they still are just outcasts.

Answer 1

If some kids just aren't meant to have friends and fit in, I definitely fit in that category!

Answer 2

Not everybody is a people person, but normally everybody has at least one close friend.

If this is you we are talking about, perhaps you need to take stock of your friends. I'm sure you have somebody. If not, maybe you need to make more of an effort to meet people. Friendships don't happen instantly, they take time and effort. Make memories with people. Invite a group to go bowling or skating. Or just invite somebody to your house to have lunch one day.

If you are talking about somebody else, it could be that they don't seek the company of others in the social scenes you see them in. If you are concerned about this person, it never hurts to reach out to them.

Answer 3

then form a big group of outcast kids and have a nice social circle, when i was in high school, there was a bunch of us not "accepted" by the "top social" cliques, and we didnt want to be, so we all became friends with eath other and had a blast, and they dont necessarily have to all be in the same grade to be friends.

Answer 4

If they have any friends at all, or even just one really good friend, I'd say they are doing well... I was like that for a while, and then I just gave up on trying to be popular... I got friends by just being myself.... so maybe if you  (or your child) just tries to be him/herself, he/she should be just fine. :)

Answer 5

Yeah, a lot of kids are just very different from the "normal" kids in school and I, myself  being one of those, can relate. I did have friends of my own and am glad my mom never forced the "normal" life onto me.

Answer 6

Okay: I believe that, in some places a person goes, thay just won't fit in. Some people are just like that.

Maybe they need to talk to more people and be a bit more outgoing or friendly. They could try joining clubs and things that exactly fit their interests and just be really friendly to people, without being a doormat/pushover.

Answer 7

I think sometimes some people aka kids don't want friends at first and not meaning to they push people out of there life. I did that for many years and now I got like 2 best friends, about 6 good friends, 1 guy friend that is like my brother, and 24 other people that I talk to on a daily or weekly basis!!!

Sometimes its just hard to make friends because kids are so mean nowadays!!!  

Answer 8

Hey,

Every child should have friends but i do agree some children just don't "fit in" with the children of today. For example a child that is very bright academically who spends their time revising and doesn't enjoy parties or things that most children enjoy then nobody would want to "hang out" with them because they would be considered uncool. I always make friends with everyone no matter how their personality is, if the children got to know that one person better they would see there's much more to them than the brains. There are also children who just prefer to be left on their own,

:)  xxxx

Answer 9

Human beings are social animals. We require social interaction in order to function as healthy and well-meaning members of society. A long term inability to make friends can lead to unhealthy relationships later on in life, or dangerous behavior. However, this does not mean that loners are all going to end up bringing guns to school or doing something else horrible.

As a teenager, I had three friends, only one of whom I spent any significant time with. I wasn't in the band, didn't play sports, didn't do anything academic or participate in any clubs. I was just a plain old average kid at school. People knew me, but I didn't do much outside of school with anyone but my one close friend.

I wouldn't say that anyone is or is not "meant" to have friends or fit in. It's more a matter of choosing to join or not to join into group activities.