Do you think someone whos got a low opinion of theirselves??

Question

Should attempt to find a partner?,Or not?.I am lonely but its embarassing being poor and having bad mental health,(I am mental) and I dont try looking because I hate rejection. Am I being negative,in thinking I cant meet someone or realistic?

Answer 1

If you look you will find somebody. maybe a girl who is poor and mental.

Answer 2

Talk about the positives, everyone else will point out the negatives.

Answer 3

i hate my lif i think i am ugly fat and ugly i vemit up somtims

Answer 4

Babe, you are entitled to happiness just as much as the next person!

Unfortunately while you are in a negative state of mind other people will pick up on that and that can push them away.

Be yourself, be confident with who you are, none of us are perfect and people will be drawn to you for you, not your misconception of yourself.

Hope that helps, Good luck for the future xx

Answer 5

and who isnt mental in this life, just give ur self esteem and boost and loo for the partener of ur life.

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Answer 6

I think that before you try to find a partner, you should change your opinion of yourself.  As a retired psychotherapist myself, I know that people can change their beliefs and opinions, particularly about yourself.  I would particularly recommend someone with training in Redecision Therapy, created by Robert and Mary Goulding.  Their techniques are very successful in changing people's attitudes about themselves.

Answer 7

with that attitude? you wont meet anyone, or at least anyone worth while... you really need to take care of yourself first... you can't expect someone else to come in and love you if you don't even give a sh*t about yourself... good people don't care about money... but everyone cares about negativity... everyone has problems, no one is going to want to have to deal with their own problems and then take yours on just because you don't care about yourself enough to do it yourself...change your attitude and be pleasantly surprised! You'll instantly feel better, even if you are still single...good luck!

Answer 8

everyone has a special someone

Answer 9

Attend support groups or activities which are geared toward people like yourself or with similar issues. I work with the mentally ill population in a community based support program, which includes a day program and other services. Many of the participants have a multitude of psychiatric conditions, yet they often have partners. Just be sure to compare your symptoms and level of ability to support each other. If you both are educated about each other, it is definitely possible to have a healthy relationship.

Answer 10

I'd date you as long as you were essentially a good person.

Everyone has issues but at least you're strong enough to admit it and face up to them.

Good on you.

=)

Answer 11

Given what you've told us, I would suggest not actively seeking a partner at this time in your life (ie, dont go all out to find one).  But how about making yourself available?  Don't be closed to idea of someone as they may help your mental state

Perhaps place a personals ad on the internet, being honest about it, and just leaving it at that.  Then sit back and wait.

Or, for the time being, forge online friendships with people who will be supportive

Answer 12

Everyone has the right to find somebody to love, even people with mental health problems, you just have to make sure you treat your partner well! :)