Do you think std's affect your relationship?

Question

And what do you think is the worst other then HIV?

Just curious, cuz my ex ask me back out, and I herd from one of his many ex's, that after we split he slept with some girl at a club and got one...and I'm scared I would get it, so I'm not going back with him.

And besides he cheats to much so yeah that ain't for me.

But I was just wondering if it will affect what people think of you and if you can still fine love if you tell them the truth that you have or had one? Cuz he don't tell the girls when he sleep with them witch is illegal in some states.

Answer 1

The only thing worse than HIV is full blown AIDS

Answer 2

If it raises a concern and he's very serious on dating you, then maybe you should just be honest and tell him to get tested....

I'm sure STD's do affect relationships, especially if you aren't honest with your partner.

Answer 3

don't even go there.  You know, most guys tell you they have nothing just to get some s*x and of course they don't wanna use condoms.

That is exactly how I got HIV and to tell you the truth it is not very great life after you get it.

Most people are scared of it, so I had to look for someone with the same problem..plus we still have to use condoms all the time.

Most STD can be treated if caught early, but do you really wanna risk it?

Even herpes is pain in the butt! can't do much with it if you don't take the pills for the rest of your life.

So as much as it is not nice, use condoms at all times! I'm not just saying it 'cause it's right, but I'm spking from experience.

Answer 4

Not me. I'm married and we don't cheat.

Abstinence and faithful marriage - great concepts!

Answer 5

im not a religous guy, but some of the teachings keep people like u out of trouble, just be more carefull next time, good luck, its odvious he cared for u, told u to keep u safe,