Do you think that a mother should take for granted that her 22 year old daughter is still a virgin?

Question

Whether you think being a virgin is good or not, you have to admit that this means she has never had an STD, been pregnant, had s*x with a married man, and many other things.

Answer 1

Should she take it for granted? No. Why? Because there are so many people out there who have pregnant teenagers, who are out there sleeping around, contracting STD's, getting pregnant, having babies and living off the government.

I would be very grateful that my daughter respected herself enough not to give in to any guy that came along, but to hold out for the one that is right for her.

Oh.. P.S. - I was a virgin until my wedding, it DOES happen.. It's not weird for a 22 year old female to be a virgin if she has decided to wait.

Answer 2

Could you rephrase that question?

I think that it is wonderful if that is what you choose. Please keep in mind that there are many women your age who are in serious,committed ,loving relationships who do not sleep with married men, have never been pregnant nor do they have an STD. Basically, the only one who has any reason to be proud of you is you. Virginity at your age is not a badge to be worn for all to see........it is a private and personal decision. If this is what you choose then you should be very proud without expecting others to be as well.

Answer 3

I don't see why she should care either way.  Good for the daughter, I guess, but at 22, that is her business, and her mother shouldn't have to treat her like she's special based on her sexual activity or lack there of.

Answer 4

Why is it an issue at all?  Are you wanting your mom to pat you on the back?  Good for you.  Continue with your good morals.

Answer 5

you have an innocent angel daughter =)

are you SURE she's a virgin?

Answer 6

i don't really get the question..besides being proud of my daughter for the things you mentioned how do you take it for granted?that sounds weird what is the mom supposed to do?

Answer 7

I think it is a nice thing to have a virgin daughter, but it isn't something you take for granted either way. As a mother, it is what it is. Mother's have little control over their adult children.

Really though, even if she wasn't a virgin, that doesn't mean she has STDs or is pregnant or has had s*x with a married man...

Answer 8

I'm sorry, your question doesn't make much sense. You should rephrase.

Answer 9

I don't see the problem, either.

As long as you wasn't interested in the subject, and I see you have healthy ideas & knowledge, there is no problem.

The only problem (yours!) shall arise when you shall not be a virgin any more! As long as you can keep the wild animal into the leash, best for you.

But if you may have a best friend to help you in this issue, lucky you also.

It is a very delicate problem. It's just about your life and you must have your own decisions. Why should be your mother's problem? Must she be grateful to you cause you are responsible for your own life?

And sorry, it's absolutely normal your own life to NOT be alike to any other one, as it is yours; you have to do whatever you wish with it - respect your self or garbage your life - it's up to you, up to your own believes.

You two should relax your relationship.

Peace.

Answer 10

She should be proud of her, I guess.

I would think it's odd if my daughter was 22 and a virgin though.