Do you think that couples should be physiologically tested before try to become parents?

Question

I have seen lots of bad parents nowadays.Basically any girl or boy aged 13 can be a procreatory machine , i use this word because simply placing a p***s in a v****a and then push kids into the world CANT be called parenting ! and i dont blame young teenagers for the generation we have today , i blame the government as well . From my point of view people should be put through an attitude and psychological test before they even try to do it without condoms and find out whether AT THIS MOMENT OF THEIR life they are really ready to have kids ..what are your toughts on all this ? should irresponsible inmature people allowed to have nay kids at all?

Answer 1

I just have 2 words: Marriage counseling.  If people did it the old fashioned way we could possibly eliminate the all of this mess.  But I have 2 kids out of wedlock, teen parent and all.  I changed my life to make my kids life easier, not every one has that ability and are stuck in their childish ways.  Don't you think the world would be a pretty boring place if we were all raised by mature and responsible people?

Answer 2

The thing is how do we know the psychologist knows they are doing?  Also at who's expense, determining if someone is a good/bad parent doesn't take just one session.  Also, when it's determined the person unfit mentally, what next, tying the tubes or vasectomy, who pays for THAT?

Answer 3

Here's the question.  How are you going to stop them?   Trying to stop people from having s*x is like trying to stop them from breathing and eating.  Good luck with that!   If you're going to arm wrestle Mother Nature, I know who I'm betting on.

Answer 4

if people were checked  out prior, there would be no children in the world and we would be done for. parenting is something we learn as we go along. our society has let s*x be something it shouldn't be. if parents guide kids right, 13 year olds don't want to have s*x. h**l, what they should do, is make every kid take care of a baby for like 2 days or so, see what the reality is. the government only does what the people want, they wanted this craziness, well it's here. not all parents nowdays are bad, just young. inexperience is the problem. uneducated is the problem, not letting kids be kids is the problem. h**l, there are too many problems.

Answer 5

Looks like you are just wanting people to agree with your little rant.I don't even agree with you.Yeah young kids shouldn't be having kids,but it is and (hopefully) always will be their right.Just because one person thinks that another person isn't ready or capable of having children doesn't mean that they are right.I would never wish that the government could get involved in matters such as this.They can't even handle the matters that they are involved in right now.The parents of the kids having kids & the kids themselves should be the ones being blamed & taking responsibility.

Btw- All "bad" parents aren't just young ones.They come in all shapes,ages & colors.

Answer 6

I suggest getting involved to a point as to where the teen(s) feel comfortable talking seriously with you about the "birds and bees", and it doesn't just happen you must work at something like trust over years and years. That is why some parents are basically screwed once they realize lil Johnny ain't behavin then everything gets blown out of proportion because lil Johnny should be old enough to know right and wrong, but all along he was raised on Johnny Bravo. Government has no place in my family sorry, and I can't blame them unless I want a soldier. It's the parents and their parents and so on and so forth.

Answer 7

I agree with you, however, everyone is so hung up on "my rights", that it won't ever happen. People that can't pay their bills, aren't in a decent relationship, and lack brain capacity to be productive people should be sterile. Plain and simple, a lot of parents these days are nothing more than pathetic wastes of human life and should be euthanized. The questions on here prove that very often. A trip to the store proves that very often. Everyone griping about their bills, proves that very often. The list goes on and on in my book. Bring on the thumbs downs people, because it's the darn truth.

Answer 8

I think that is a good idea. When i was in school I don't remember one chapter on s*x education. They might have been afriad of how the parents would react but i think most the kids then would not have had babys at age 14 and 15

Answer 9

i think ur asking for too much. i can't think of a way someone could supervise or inforce this... are they gonna start denying hospital visits cuz u don't have a license to be a parent! people are gonna break rules. (not all of course) and truthfully parents can do so much as well. i have friends who's parents were really strict...they turned out to be teen moms. i have friends who's parents tried to be best friends with them, they got abortions! i was never told the consequences of having s*x however i didn't have a child in or right after high school. (still dont at the age 23) i personally dont think that teaching them about s*x will do much help! i personally think its the media! ever since juno (which i think was a nice movie) and jamie lynne spears is why that pregopact happen. kids see s*x in tv hear it in thier music! especially music! i also believe unwanted pregos have been happening for long time! but now it public and the thing to do!!! which is sad. but no, irresponsilble people should not have kids! its the reason i dont have kids right now (maybe later though)

Answer 10

I think that the reason that people have s*x at such a young age is because parents don't sit their children down and talk to them about what could possibly happen and how to protect themselves.  Almost all of the unfit parents that I know where not talked to about the consequences or even given the right protection.  This is not the teenagers fault because they still have many things to learn.  This is because parents are too busy doing other things than pay attention to their children.  So that is who you need to blame.  Teenagers are going to be teenagers.  It is up to the parents.