Do you think that i'm overreacting?

Question

My boyfriend promised me a nice night in with a bottle of wine but he's been in the pub since 5pm. And he hasn't called. It's not the first time he's done this and i'm pretty peeved. Shall i just go to bed and lock him out? Or am I being silly...

Answer 1

lock him out. typical selfish man.

Answer 2

Go for it.

Answer 3

kick him 2 the curb !

Answer 4

That is what I would do, maybe next time he will come over when he says.

Answer 5

Just dump him for his sister.

Answer 6

lock him out

Answer 7

Well, go down and join him or get a new boyfriend who keeps his word and puts you first before his mates when it comes to making dates.

Answer 8

Move on... if you are still young, and I am assuming this, then this is what your life is going to be,  What next?  Man made diamonds and real fake pearls... pause, think?  What do you want?

Answer 9

Yeah

Lock him out and go to bed

Answer 10

While ripping his wardrobe to shreds and/or locking him out may be going a bit too far, you have a right to be annoyed at his behavior.  In fact, I would wonder, being that he's done this before, if he really cares about your feelings here or if he's just giving you lip service.  Another possibility is that he's at the bar getting drunk- and losing track of time in the process.  If I were you, I would find something else to do tonight- without him in the picture.  If he gets ticked, well then too bad for him.  In addition, you might even want to reconsider your relationship if his stunts get repetitive or go to extremes.  I knew a guy who did those things to his girlfriend, and she dumped him in the end for it.

Answer 11

No, I'd leave and go out and not come back til tomorrow.  If you have no one to go clubbing with, just sleep over a friend's place, or even rent a room.  Just stay out all night and enough into tomorrow that he misses you.  Don't just go out and come back at 5AM, because he might come home drunk and not even realize that you weren't there and be asleep when you come in.  Stay out until tomorrow afternoon and don't answer his calls.  Then tomorrow when you come in, he'll be wondering.  Then get upset and let him fix it.

you're not being silly. I don't know how long he's been gone, but if it's been a long time, he's being selfish and inconsiderate.

Answer 12

I'd be mighty peeved.  If he isn't in an emergency room or intensive care unit (and really is in the pub with his mates), then perhaps he'd like to move in with one of them while you find someone more reliable.

As for the clothes, try to restrict yourself to just one item for shredding - just make sure it's a favourite of his.

Answer 13

I think it will be a overreacting if you reap up his clothes and i also think that you should just sleep right now if it is already your sleeping time.

Answer 14

Nope, youre entitled to feel let down and hurt.

If I was you, I'd phone a friend, and go out clubbing for the night right now, and see how he likes it tomorrow morning when you get in at 5am.

Answer 15

Yes go to bed i am having an early night too **** em

Answer 16

YOu know what ?? That happened to me, and here's what i did:

I pretended i wasn't pissed off at all and a couple of days later called him and arranged to meet at a restaurant and kept him waiting...while i was out just accross the road with my friends and could see him there on his own, he waited for nearly an hour and i wasn't answering the phone. I know, very mean, but he got the message, and it never happened again...because i dumped him  :)

Answer 17

Go to bed but don't lock him out incase you have a change of heart and have to get up to let him in. But when he eventually comes home, give him a piece of your mind.