Do you think that it's wrong if my fantasy is....?

Question

being with another girl. I mean I am married but I often wonder how it would be to be with another girl. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband, but when I see other pretty girls I just have fantasy's about being with them, and touching them and just having s*x. Do you think this is wrong?

Answer 1

No there is nothing at all wrong with that in fact you and your husband should have a 3-some with another woman.

You will both love it.

My husband never wanted and still doesn't want to do this in fact he is never interested in s*x at all BUT my boyfriend and i have had many 3-somes with other women and its really fun..

Edit..Lis believe me your husband fantasizes about other woman ALL men do.

Edit..Mizz your husband is lying he would love to have a 3-some with you and another woman ALL men do. He only said no cause he thinks its a trap.

Answer 2

There's nothing wrong with having SEXUAL feelings toward someone else, just as long as they don't manifest into something physical. Humans are sexual beasts, plain and simple.

Answer 3

its not wrong...its just weird....

you might be bi.  

Answer 4

It's not wrong, it's just you. Personally, I'm not interested in vaginas or b***s but to each his/her own.

Answer 5

i say get over it and be glad that you have a husband that DOESN'T want to have s*x with another girl or other women. most women in the world would kill for that and you're trying to ruin it by GETTING HIM to have s*x with another woman??? seems pretty stupid to me.

Answer 6

i personally don't think it is wrong. You're not actually touching them or anything. Everyone has fantasies every now and then. People get curious, you can't help that. And it's not like you're going out and cheating on your husband with a girl.

i think it's fine. :)

Answer 7

nope its natural too experiment, but when you do take lots of pics and send them too me

Answer 8

its not weird, you are only Bi, as many others, if hubby is straight and doesn't like to go for 3some, its up to him.

you can make your fantasy real away from him. I have a friend same as you looking for a partner.

Answer 9

nope it not wrong you probably just curious many women do that so nope nothing wrong

Answer 10

No, not at all.

It sounds kinda s**y actually!

Answer 11

there's nothing wrong with your fantasy, i bet you husband's fantasies are a lot dirtier than that

Answer 12

threesome? lol

Answer 13

no its normal.

ur probably bi-curious.

that means u dont know for sure if ur bi.

Answer 14

dont do it............think of what you have...and what you could lose..........think of a quality relationship with your man only,...youre playing with fire

Answer 15

No matter how you look at it, it would still be cheating. The fact that you think about it so  much is the same thing as having an emotional affair.

Answer 16

FIRST; THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!

OK, Fantasy’s are very healthy. And yours is by far ranked #1, with both men and woman. If that was the first time the subject has ever come up between you and you husband, don’t trip, his first response was quite common. LOL.

Most of the women I’ve been with over the years have been bi. Come be think of it, most where openly bi going into the relationship. My X admitted that one of the things that attracted her to me was the first threesome she ever had had been with me and my first wife 8yrs before. She lived above our apartment and one night my wife asked if she’d like to try it. We had a great time, but never got with her again. (Just as well, neighbors and co-workers are bad mo-Joe). Just take things real slow and don’t go there unless you have a very committed and trusting relationship.  

Answer 17

Keep it as a fantasy, I am sure your hubby probably has the same fantasy but its better left at that.  The moment you break that sanctity bond between the two of you, you open a can of worms.

Answer 18

no

Answer 19

Do you REALLY think your husband would take issue with that?

Answer 20

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I Don't think that there is anything wrong about that

at all = ]

I do this too_and im engaged.

_It's Natural, We r all human after all  = D

As lng as you don't act on ur fantasy u nd ur man

should be all sweet_because i guess it would still

count as cheating.

Why dont yuu try nd tlk to ur husband about it...

see what he thinks and if he dosn't mind set

something up with him_if yuu no what i mean LOL

(Thats what i did nd it worked for me lol)

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Answer 21

I believe this is wrong. Why would you put your marriage in danger for? If he has already told you that he doesn't like that and you still want to go ahead and do it. I'm married too, but I wouldn't do that with a girl or a guy and plus I love my husband too much and I know he loves me. If I put another girl inbetween our marriage it's as if I'm putting disaster between us. Sorry but if you do love your husband, you wouldn't be doing this or thinking about it either.

Answer 22

It's life. People are attractive and so is the human body. It is fine to fantasize about it as long as you don't act upon it, b/c you are married. Maybe you should have a sit down with the hubby and let him in on this secret.  

Answer 23

Nope!! i'm sure you're husband has thought of other girls, although maybe not guys. But there is no harm in it. Just thoughts. It's a problem if you feel like acting upon it. Just thoughts, and they are fun to think about cuz its something different that interests you.

Maybe if you feel strongly enough, and feel that your husband is the type to accept it then maybe you peruse it together.

Answer 24

yes... d**e

Answer 25

i think maybe u should explore the option of being g*y or at least bi.  talk to your husband about it, and getting into marital counseling before your marriage goes bad.  trust me, u dont want to keep this issue to urself, he needs to know about it.

Answer 26

Nope. Everyone is differnet.

Answer 27

eatin aint cheatin

Answer 28

yes,you can do this

Answer 29

well.....i would think its kinda wrong. because your eyes should be for your husband only. i dont know about u but i would be upset if my husband was fantasize about other women. i think it goes both ways in marriage, even if its a other women n u being a women.